Mr. J’s wife is a very proactive woman. She was born into a wealthy family and was able to get everything she wanted since she was a child. She is also a very capable person and does a great job. When the woman took the initiative to approach Mr. J, Mr. J felt a little unable to take on the responsibility at first. However, Mr. J is not tired of this cheerful, enthusiastic and beautiful woman. He couldn't bear to say "I don't love you" and so on to cruelly reject her. After several years of dating, the woman became pregnant. They walked into the wedding hall naturally.

However, after the child was born, problems arose. Mr. J believes that he is already shouldering the burden of raising a family and raising children, but his wife often quarrels with him over trivial matters such as housework, which is simply unreasonable. Mr. J’s wife thinks that since she also works outside, Mr. J should also help with housework. Mr. J really can't understand his wife. He admitted that his wife cared about him very much, but he really couldn't understand her thoughts. His wife asked him to love her as much as she loved him. Mr. J, however, believes that he married his wife solely to satisfy his wife’s wishes. Moreover, after getting married, Mr. J also worked hard and fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband.

"What's the point of living like this?" He works hard but can only get a small salary, and the entire salary is turned over to his wife. Mr. J feels that life is boring. One day, he decided to resign and announced to his wife that he would prepare for the judicial examination at home. His wife made a fuss and said, "Do I have to make money to support the family, raise the children, and send the children to school?!" Despite this, his wife finally accepted the reality.

Mr. J is still preparing for the judicial examination at home, and his wife’s income has to cover all living expenses. He knew his wife was working hard, but he didn't feel guilty. He believes that this is a life chosen by his wife.

Many women are saying this: Unlike in the past, where women could only wait silently for a man’s choice, now they have to openly choose the person they like. Only such a woman will be truly happy. But why do women who take the initiative to approach men live so tiredly in nine out of ten cases?

Of course, women should marry the man they like and choose. However, some women believe that the way a woman shows love to a man must be the same as the way a man shows love to a woman. This is a bit problematic. For women, as long as the other person is not bad, they will eventually be moved by the other person's sincerity. Men are different from women.

Most men only regard their hard-earned things as treasures. Just like character upgrades in online games, the same is true in love. Only love that is slowly won through one's own efforts can make a man feel precious and become more loyal to his lover. If this process comes too easily, especially if a woman takes the initiative to show love to him, men will subconsciously ignore the charm of women. This is the conclusion that many men said in unison.

In fact, this is how men treat everything. Those things that are successful through their own efforts can make men feel happier. They will not cherish a woman who takes the initiative to enter their life, because they want the woman to pay the price. Who allows the woman to take away the opportunity for him to control his own marriage? Most women probably don’t know how cruel men can be to women they get for free.

When it comes to Mr. J in the above story, everyone will say that he has a bad nature. However, those men who are knowledgeable and polished in appearance will also be very cruel to women who take the initiative to approach them. It's not because they have any philosophy or beliefs about how to treat women, it just happens naturally. In fact, if we ask men: Why do you treat women who pursue you like that? The men themselves couldn't tell. The "bad men" we often talk about are not that bad at the beginning. When a man cannot love his woman enough, bad men emerge as the times require.

In life, if a man lives a good life with a woman who likes him, there will be many benefits. Sadly, men don’t know this, or don’t do it well. This may be because men are only loyal to their own instincts. For them, no matter how kind and good the other woman is, this is not the point. The point is: the woman they like is "good", and the woman they don't like is "evil".

Some people say that when two people are in love, the one who loves the other person more is the weaker one. In normal relationships, such differences in attitudes between men and women are not so obvious. Some girls are very considerate and lovely to others, but they are very unreasonable to their boyfriends. Even such a girl will still be considerate to her husband after getting married.

A survey conducted in the United States showed that if the relationship between husband and wife deteriorates, women's health will become very poor, but men's health will not be affected. Even if a woman is dissatisfied with her husband, she will still take care of him while complaining. Ordinary women will do their best to take care of their spouse after getting married. Moreover, women have a stronger ability to resonate. It is precisely because of this that if a man uses some tricks to impress a woman, the woman will feel love and be "grateful" to the man. After such lovers get married, the relationship between husband and wife will also show that the woman loves her husband more. .

Men are not like this. If you get married because the other person loves you more, then he will think, "I have fulfilled your wishes and married you, what else do you want from me?" They have no desire to make women happy, and they cannot Be content with married life.

Some women know these tempers in men. They usually approach men secretly and quietly. For example, you often hang around men and try to make them like you, but you will never show any more affection than necessary. No matter what, be sure to let the man say the words "I like you" first. If a woman has taken the initiative to approach, then she must slowly let the man understand in the future that it is not easy to win a woman's love. Among those couples where the woman pursues the man, some of the couples live well because the woman does a better job in this aspect. What is very interesting is that in this kind of couple, the man usually mistakenly thinks that he has chased the woman. Human memory can be managed. These men always think that their wives are the "goddess" they have worked so hard to pursue.

A man in love speaks with his actions

I think that in a relationship, if a man loves a woman more, the relationship between them may be more stable and long-lasting. This is not a matter of "ism". However, there are many women who agree with this statement, but at the same time fall in love with men who don't like them very much, and even fantasize about getting married. This is because many women mistakenly believe that the other person also loves them deeply. Generally speaking, people interpret the things in front of them from their own standpoint. The same goes for these female friends. They just regard certain unusual behaviors of men as expressions of love for themselves.

We all know that when a man and a woman fall in love, they do not necessarily really love each other. Some people just want to fall in love because they haven't met their dream Prince Charming (or Snow White) yet. Therefore, find an appropriate person among the people around you and start a relationship first. This may be the case with your lover as well.

So, how can you know whether the other person really loves you? My answer is: Such a question itself is problematic.

A reader asked me to give her a piece of advice. She is a 27-year-old woman who is very troubled by her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is a sweet man who is her senior. People around them are very envious of them and think they are model lovers. However, unlike the appearance, when this reader gets along with her boyfriend, she does not feel happy much, but feels more uneasy and desolate.

He often uses certain special days or events as an excuse to leave his girlfriend aside and go on trips by himself. If his girlfriend's date conflicts with a friend's party, then he will often choose to attend the friend's party without hesitation. He always finds a seemingly reasonable reason. Because the company was in an emergency period, I couldn't celebrate my girlfriend's birthday; I traveled abroad by myself because I was embarrassed to cause trouble to my relatives abroad; I canceled a date with my girlfriend and went to a friend's party instead because Can't you really spoil your friends' mood? ? His reasons were always convincing, and my reader patiently listened to his explanations and understood his difficulties. Although she firmly believes that her boyfriend loves her very much, she occasionally thinks, "Is it okay for us to continue like this?"

Recently, her friends have also started falling in love. Unlike her, her friend's boyfriend always puts his girlfriend first. My friend, a reader, was hit hard in his heart after the comparison. However, she still thought that everyone's love methods and situations were different, and they could not be compared simply. Are you too sensitive and looking for trouble?

She said that she loved her boyfriend very much and was ready to marry him. However, she is not sure whether she should believe her boyfriend's love for her.

When a woman is in love, she will use the looming female hormones to confuse a man’s thinking. If a couple is shopping on the street and the woman says, "That bag is so beautiful," then the average man will just think that his girlfriend really likes that handbag. In contrast, a man with a little experience will guess: What does a woman mean when she says this? Is she asking a man to buy her a handbag, or is she testing his aesthetic sense? In addition, when men are in love, they do not like to play "love games" like women. A man's actions and performance in love basically represent his sincerity. Like the couple mentioned in the previous story, her boyfriend actually didn't love her enough. If a man really lets his girlfriend go due to reasons beyond his control, then the man will definitely be very eager to make up for it with other actions and use this to tell the woman that he still loves her. Men don’t want women to doubt their love for women because of this incident.

Some women who look very smart and cool try their best to use various reasons to explain that they are in love with their boyfriends, even though from the perspective of others, it is obvious that the men are in love with each other. Not that fond of women. Take a look around. There are many women who firmly believe that the man opposite them who has been dating, eating, and maintaining a relationship with them for several months likes them very much.

If you want to test whether your boyfriend loves you or not, just look at the way your boyfriend shows love. See if a man is just bragging when he expresses love without actually taking action. Men belong to the "problem-solving" group, so when they want to show their affection, they must see physical changes to be satisfied. Just saying things like I'm sorry and I love you is not in line with a man's original style. If he doesn't keep his promise, it means he doesn't love you very much. Even if he is a lazy guy who doesn't even want to move a finger. As for what you're going to do

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