We usually think that falling in love is an act before marriage, a process in which both parties understand and get along. But after marriage, there is no need for it, and I think that being ordinary is the real thing. In fact, love after marriage is very necessary. It is the best weapon for both husband and wife to face the ordinary life. It is the process of the couple getting to know each other again, and it is also the process of the couple reintegrating and living harmoniously. However, we must also be clear that no love can be "fresh" forever, and love after marriage is realistic, so lower all your fantasies about love.

The period of passionate love is probably the best time for you two, and you never tire of looking at each other. The two of them were inseparable, their ears and temples were rubbing together, and they did not want to separate for a minute. They were simply each other's shadow. The most ecstatic promise in love is: we will stay together forever! However, after getting married, staring at each other from morning to night every day, what other tricks can you see? The days are the same, they know each other well, and the freshness and mystery of each other gradually disappear.

There is no perfect person in the world, but in the eyes of a lover, you are the most perfect. Therefore, when she is in love, even the freckles on both sides of her nose feel as beautiful as the scattered stars in lily petals. But after getting married, the "Snow White" who fought, held, and coaxed to get married, after thousands of days and months of hard training, turned into "dregs", "tofu dregs", and "yellow-faced woman" "; The "Prince Charming" who cried out, got tired, and insisted on getting married, after thousands of days and months of exploitation, became a "thorn in the side" and a "thorn in the flesh" whose bad habits are hard to change.

The "bad habits" that both parties had tried so hard to cover up at the beginning, or the so-called "faults" that could be tolerated when they were in love, gradually became fully exposed in the ordinary life after marriage, and even became highlighted and magnified. They used to be a romantic couple holding hands before the flowers and under the moon, but now they are blaming each other over trivial matters, complaining and scolding instead of sweet words.

The "zero distance" life after marriage will weaken the attraction between both parties. If two people are so close that they can't insert a needle, they are probably not far from an explosion. Therefore, love needs an "intermission" and a "dormant period". The couple does not need to be inseparable and intimate. They should give each other some time and space to breathe freely. If they occasionally separate, longing and concern will arise spontaneously. Only when we are reunited can we accumulate the energy of love and rekindle the spark of love.

So how should we "fall in love" after getting married?

Communication is the most important thing in marriage. Only by communicating with each other can we understand each other's thoughts. For example, when making some family decisions, discuss them calmly. Also, when misunderstandings occur, you must "talk". Remember, no one is a roundworm in someone else's belly. Don't guess what the other person is thinking. You must communicate in a timely manner and don't let misunderstandings bury love!

And perfect sex is also the guarantee of a happy marriage. However, many couples, due to familiarity with each other or other reasons, feel that sex has been boring and boring, and they are getting further and further away from the so-called perfect sex. But the editor believes that as long as we work hard and use skills flexibly, it is very easy to achieve perfect sex.

Tolerance is also a required course for our love after marriage. Only by tolerating each other can the relationship between husband and wife be more harmonious. And blindly criticizing will accelerate the breakdown of the relationship.

After marriage, you need to fall in love, but you have to do it just right.

4 tips to make sex never boring after marriage

1. Desire

Not all sex is initiated by men. In fact, women's initiative often makes sex more exciting. You can have a close relationship with her, or kiss her passionately.

Put the tip of your tongue into her mouth and ask her to do the same. This trick can make each other feel better. No matter how hungry you are at this time, don't rush to hit the hole; the 120,000-year-old mood is enough to make sex reach its peak.

2. Hug

Food and clothing will never make us tired. This is because hugs bring not only physical warmth, but also the same feeling in the soul. In addition, you can improve the quality of sex through caressing, starting from her secondary sensitive zones, such as the inside of the auricles and the back of the neck, and then gradually moving to super sensitive zones, such as the inner thighs and sexual organs. The gentler the movements, the better the sensation. She will also get more and more into the situation. Of course, you can also ask her to put her hands on your sexy belt and flirt with each other.

3. Greetings

You can never have too many nice words. When she wants you to encourage her, don’t hesitate to say sweet words. The other person will be delighted by the praise! In addition to "I love you", you can also say some specific words such as "You are so sexy"; if you can't find any suitable words, then breathe out to make sex more exciting. The belief that you care about her at all times during the process can make sex more exciting.

4. Tongue kiss

Use your tongue to scrub her whole body thoroughly, especially her nipples, clitoris and labia minora. Some women's senses are very sensitive, and they feel extremely sensitive when they lightly touch the roots behind the ears, toes or fingers. To improve the quality of sex, both men and women need to spend time developing each other's erogenous zones, using Tongue "carpet search". People who have tried "Swiss-Shu Le" will realize: the skin is the largest sexual organ of the human body!