When women are in their 30s, they are experiencing the "seven-year itch", and the passion in marriage has long been replaced by dull life. Faced with external temptations, women are likely to be unable to help themselves.

Some people say, "It takes 500 years of practice to buy a lifetime of marriage," so marriage is extremely precious. But in real life, some people cannot resist the temptation of the outside world and have extramarital affairs. Recently, a Western survey involving many countries around the world showed that compared with the incidence of extramarital affairs among men, the number of extramarital affairs among women is increasing at an accelerated rate.

Research has found that the risk age for women to have extramarital affairs is after the age of 30, with the peak age being 36 to 40 years old. Due to the influence of traditional culture, the proportion of extramarital affairs among Chinese women is far lower than that in Western countries. For example, in the United States, the rate of unfaithful wives is as high as 66%, and in France, the number of unfaithful wives is as high as 87%. If your partner suddenly becomes busy, doesn't come home on time from get off work, or never leaves your phone, these may be signs of an extramarital affair.

In this regard, experts analyze that when women are in their 30s, they are experiencing the "seven-year itch", and the passion in marriage has long been replaced by dull life. Faced with external temptations, women are likely to be unable to help themselves. At the same time, during this period, family life is more leisurely and prosperous, children are no longer as troublesome as before, and women's mature temperament will attract some men. Theoretically, of course, we should try our best to avoid the occurrence of extramarital affairs, because it may not only lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, the disintegration of the marriage and family, but also cause certain harm to the growth of children and social order.

After an extramarital affair, some couples are able to get back together after honest communication. But the prerequisite for repairing a marriage must be that the extramarital affair has completely ended, and the cheating party should sincerely apologize and make corrections.

A woman aged 45 has a high probability of cheating

After experiencing the restlessness of youth and the enthusiasm of adulthood, when people reach middle age, both men and women will face more temptations. Research shows that the age at which women are most likely to have an affair is 45.

Recently, the British "Huffington Post" summarized for us some of the reasons why middle-aged women are most likely to betray their families, helping middle-aged couples to nip problems in the bud.

Increased self-confidence. After experiencing the test of life and career, women in their 40s are more confident in their abilities and temperament, have a wider social circle, and have the opportunity to meet more men, which inadvertently increases the probability of cheating.

Worry less about your children. Children are growing up day by day, and their ability to take care of themselves has become stronger. Finally, they no longer have to worry about taking care of infants and young children. Therefore, middle-aged women have more free time of their own and have the opportunity to be free and relaxed.

Hormone changes. By the age of 40, the proportion of testosterone in a woman's body increases, while estrogen and oxytocin decrease relatively. This makes women have an increased sexual impulse and pay more attention to whether their own sexual needs are met, rather than blindly catering to their husbands.

Boredom of the same sex partner. After living with the same partner for decades, both men and women may find sex boring or even boring. At this time, changing a partner will give you the pleasure of "stealing pleasure", which makes people irresistible.

Not taken seriously at home. In family life, women are usually responsible for some trivial housework, such as cooking, laundry, etc., which leaves her without a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction, and thus she begins to yearn for the "flowery world" outside the family.

Hope to stay young forever. Every woman knows that perfect sex will make her more sexy and beautiful. If the husband at home does not understand and appreciate them, they can only find another soulmate.

"Tit for tat" against cheating husband. If her husband has cheated on her or cheated on her in the past, a woman may do the same thing to find balance once she has the ability or opportunity.

Therefore, experts specially remind that maintaining the relationship between husband and wife is a lifelong matter. Middle-aged husbands should pay more attention to and praise their wives so that they can be happy and satisfied in family life.

Survey says nearly half of Japanese women say they have had an affair

Recently, a survey organized by Nippon Sankei Shimbun showed that 49% of Japanese women admitted to having had an affair, and 5.9% were currently experiencing an affair.

The survey was conducted between January 14 and 24 this year, with 329 women responding.

The survey shows that the most common circumstances for having an affair are "accidentally meeting a former lover", followed by "meeting a handsome guy while traveling or on a business trip", and "the male boss at work is too charming".

As for the reasons for having extramarital affairs, some Japanese women believe that "a man cannot satisfy them", while others believe: "Men can live and drink, why can't we women?"

The same survey showed that 51% of Japanese men admitted to having had an affair.