Extramarital affairs are the biggest killer of marriages

my country's divorce rate has been increasing for seven consecutive years. In the first quarter of this year, it soared 17.1% year-on-year. Experts call extramarital affairs the biggest "killer" of marriages. From the perspective of age structure, people aged 22-35 are the main force in divorce, those aged 36-50 are the stable period of marriage, and the divorce rate of people over 50 years old is rising.

From the perspective of educational background, the level of academic qualifications is inversely proportional to the divorce rate. The lower the academic qualifications, the higher the divorce rate. The higher the academic qualifications, the lower the divorce rate.

Ancient China, which has always advocated "harmony in the home and everything prospers", is experiencing the impact of marital turmoil. National civil affairs statistics released recently show that in the first quarter of this year, a total of 465,000 couples registered for divorce in my country, an increase of 17.1% over the same period last year. On average, more than 5,000 families were disintegrated every day. China's divorce rate has been increasing for seven consecutive years.

“Chinese-style divorce” has become a phenomenon that attracts worldwide attention. Foreign media even coined the new term "Me Generation" to analyze the reasons for the rising divorce rate in this country, which was once known as the most stable marriage in the world.

The divorce rate in Beijing and Shanghai has exceeded 1/3

"Love at first sight, get married. In anger, divorce." A staff member of the Marriage Registration Office of Chaoyang District, Beijing said , more than half of the divorced couples registered there in recent years are under the age of 35. Among them, the "post-80s generation" accounts for the majority, and the phenomenon of "escape" is becoming increasingly prominent. "Some people were still quarreling while going through the formalities. After getting the divorce certificate, they hugged each other and cried bitterly."

“With social transformation and changes in the social environment posing challenges to marriage and families, the ‘new era of divorce’ is coming.” Chen Yiyun, a researcher at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences and deputy director of the expert committee of the China Marriage and Family Research Association, said that the new divorce era In the 60 years since the founding of China, marriage in our country has gone from a super-stable stage in the first 30 years to a turbulent period in the next 30 years, especially in recent years.

Statistical data shows that since the late 1970s, the number of divorces and the divorce rate in our country have continued to rise. In the past five years, the growth rate has been significant, with an increase of up to 7.65%. Last year, while more than 1.2 million couples across the country tied the knot, more than 1.96 million couples parted ways. Currently, the divorce rate in Beijing and Shanghai has exceeded 1/3.

Chen Yijun said that the increase in the divorce rate reflects that social development and the progress of the times have brought more choice opportunities and free space to personal life, but also brought about interpersonal conflicts and emotional risks.

Extramarital affairs have become a privacy issue nowadays

“More than 30 years ago, the traditional marriage model was ‘economic cooperative’ and ‘procreation community’, plus ‘good people don’t get divorced, and good people don’t get divorced’ ' concept and the supervision of the masses in a large courtyard, external ties play a huge role in the stability of marriage," Chen Yiyun said.

"Nowadays, men have small treasury and women have private money, and no one can live without the other. Generally, families only have one child, and the blood ties that maintain marriage are also fragile." Chen Yiyun believes, "More The important thing is that the concept of love has changed. As long as a person does not engage in corruption or bribery, no one will pursue it. It becomes a privacy issue. "

"In the past, it was the same if a professor married a farmer. A lifetime. Today, the cohesion of marriage and family has shifted, and more attention has been paid to psychological harmony, cultural compatibility, and sexual life satisfaction of couples." Li Yinhe, a researcher at the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences and an expert on gender issues, believes that China is completing the nuclear family through several generations. The transformation is from the parent-child relationship as the axis to the husband-wife relationship as the axis.

Chen Yijun said that social mobility, including regional mobility and professional mobility, has increased, work is stressful, business trips are frequent, and the time spent together by couples has been reduced. In addition, social interactions have expanded, entertainment venues have opened, and opposite-sex acquaintances and relationships have increased. Opportunities for communication have increased, and extramarital affairs have become the biggest "killer" of marriage.

Guangdong 2009

92,580 couples

Couples going through divorce procedures

92,580 couples

An increase of 11.2%

The divorce rate is 10.7%

15.6%

22.2%

Shenzhen divorce rate

15.6%

Zhongshan divorce rate

22.2%

Sichuan, Jiangsu and Shandong last year

ranked the top three in the number of divorces

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According to the fourth quarter civil affairs statistics of 31 provinces across the country (excluding Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan) in 2010 compiled by the Ministry of Civil Affairs, Sichuan Province had the largest number of divorce registrations in 2010, with 169,294 couples, followed by Jiangsu and Shandong , there are 120947 pairs and 116386 pairs respectively. A total of 32,982 couples registered for divorce in Beijing, ranking 24th among 31 provinces. Tibet has the lowest number of divorces among all provinces, with only 459 couples.

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