Many people think that extramarital affairs are one-sided injuries. The cheating spouse benefits while the other spouse suffers. In fact, this view is absolutely wrong. Extramarital love is a true double-edged sword. It not only hurts the other person, but also brings a devastating blow to oneself and the family.

"Extramarital affairs" affect the physical and mental health of couples

In reality, when a woman encounters the problem of extramarital affairs, she does not want her family to break up, but she still clings to the exciting extramarital affair. She is in a dilemma. In this way, women tend to blame themselves, feel guilty and regret, but cannot get rid of it, which affects their normal life and work, their emotions, and even their physical and mental health.

Extramarital affairs destroy happy families

"Extramarital affairs" among married women often lead to disharmony in their married life, casting a shadow on their originally happy family and leading to divorce. At the same time, the intervention of a woman as a "third party" makes another family restless, and may also tear another good family into pieces.

Wife’s extramarital affair hurts husband’s self-esteem

A woman engaging in "extramarital affairs" will make her husband a "cuckold." If he knew it, it would be an indelible pain in his heart. As a grown man who cannot control his wife and causes Hongxing to cheat, he will feel that he has lost his dignity as a man and cannot hold his head up in front of others, thus losing his enterprising spirit and affecting his future social life and work. Some emotionally fragile men will lose courage and die depressed. Such serious consequences are also very common in daily life.

Extramarital affairs have a negative impact on children

Once an "extramarital affair" is known to a child, it will be detrimental to the healthy growth of the child. Spousal discord and cold war will have a negative impact on children. Because parents are their children's first teachers, their words and deeds will have a subtle impact on their children.

Teach you how to prevent extramarital affairs

After seeing so many tragic marriages caused by cheating, many friends are taboo about extramarital affairs. Therefore, friends will ask if there is no way to prevent extramarital affairs from happening? No, there is a way, and I will tell you below.

Article 1: It is necessary to break through the ordinary

Keep renewing love, constantly creating new conditions for each other, and sometimes even deliberately creating some episodes. In a word, you just need to transfer what you do in your love life to your married life. For example:

(1) On Valentine’s Day and the other person’s birthday, buy a bouquet of roses and small gifts for the other person;

(2) When you are not around your spouse, call your spouse whenever you are free and care about them;

(3) When two people are together, don’t just talk about money, but also talk about other topics;

(4) Sweet words are essential, say I love you more, and let the other person hear your love for him/her;

(5) When two people are unhappy together, they can quarrel, but never do it. Because after a quarrel, you can vent your emotions and let you know what the other person is thinking, which can enhance mutual understanding and is beneficial to the marriage. Afterwards, both parties should forget the conflict as soon as possible and not hold it in mind. Fighting, on the other hand, directly hurts the opponent, which is useless.

Article 2: Give the other party freedom

Philosophers have said that distance produces beauty. Don't tie each other too tightly. Otherwise, if the distance is too close, the beauty will disappear and the marriage will be in danger. In a word, treat your heart with your own heart, and don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. For example:

(1) Everyone has privacy in their hearts that only belongs to themselves and does not want to be known (especially past relationships, etc.). If you can't tell the other person your privacy, then please don't be like an excavator. Same, you must dig out the other person’s privacy.

(2) Don’t always ask the other person with suspicion: What are you busy with all day? Where have you been? Why come back so late? Once or twice is fine, but if you keep asking three, four, five, or six times, there may not be any problems, but problems may arise due to the nagging suspicions. Do you think it's worth it?

(3) Don’t make unreasonable assumptions about your spouse being unfaithful to you when you see your spouse with someone of the opposite sex. Clarify the matter first and don’t get carried away by anger. Maybe that person is just your spouse’s colleague or an ordinary person. friend. Think about yourself, whether you have ever been with colleagues or friends of the opposite sex.