The close connection between men’s private money and cheating

A survey report by the All-China Women’s Federation showed that 74.3% of married men have private money. The survey shows that as many as 53.40% of men save private money for a sense of security, because with money, they don’t have to worry about the embarrassment of having no money; 34.01% of men save private money for the purpose of having more freedom and money in their pockets. If you have money, you can do whatever you want; a small number of people hope to use the money to surprise their wife or children on a specific day and do some romantic things.

A man’s small treasury is inseparable from cheating?

Recently, according to a survey of 1,001 adults, 62% believe that men hiding private money greatly damages the trust between husband and wife, and 13% believe that men hiding private money will damage the trust between husband and wife. leading to divorce. A large number of them believe that a man's use of a credit card or account behind his spouse's back, or his own "small treasury", will be linked to cheating. For example, a cheating husband often hides private money to please his lover.

The owners of the small treasury rehabilitated themselves - private money is a great marriage pill

Using private money to repair the relationship between their wives and mothers (actor: pirated Big Big Wolf, 28 years old)

How to save private money: When I was having sex with my colleagues, I rushed to pay the bill with a credit card, then collected the cash, and then took the bill to my wife to pay for it.

Nowadays, the world has changed. Women’s backs are getting harder and harder, men’s wallets are getting smaller and smaller, and women no longer bother to save private money. Their slogan is: What’s yours is mine, and what’s mine is still mine. mine. Saving private money has gradually become the preserve of men. Old men do not dare to carry money confidently, so they have to save it secretly.

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The close connection between men’s private money and cheating

Thinking about it, I’m really pitiful. I claim to be the head of the family, but when the time comes, I should spend money. At that time, the hero was short of breath. He groped repeatedly in his pocket, but couldn't take out a few coins. Every time I get together with friends, I have to excuse myself to go to the toilet while paying the bill. It is certain that my friends will despise me, but what is even worse is that I despise myself more and more from the bottom of my heart. As the saying goes, "clothing is a person's ambition, money is a person." No matter what the occasion is, if you pinch your pocket secretly, as long as there is still some silver in it, your waist will straighten up. Therefore, I think men must have their own small treasury. Private money has become a man’s personal money.

But I save my private money not for myself, but more for family harmony. (Ladies, please don’t throw rotten eggs at me yet. Listen to what I have to say.) When I was just getting married, the big brother in the office gave me serious advice: You should discuss everything with your wife, except for private money, which must be dealt with secretly. But how could I understand the secret at that time? I just handed over my salary and bonus to my wife every month without any penny, and my standard index was comparable to that of Big Big Wolf.

During the holidays, the importance of private money becomes even more prominent. If you want to give your parents some filial gifts, you have to report it to your wife. Of course, your wife won’t say anything with the money. The key is China. There are already many holidays, but when my parents and brothers are in trouble and want to come to me, it seems that I don’t have enough confidence to ask my wife for money. My wife’s face is clearly a barometer. In fact, it is also appropriate to repay parents for their nurturing kindness and help siblings, but my wife’s perspective is different. Simple things may change after she finds out about them. Because of these things, the relationship between my mother and my wife was tense for a time.

I had no choice but to pay the bill with a credit card when I was working with my colleague, then collect the cash, and then take the bill to my wife to pay for it. Fortunately, she was more understanding of my entertainment expenses, so she gave me the green light all the way. I used this private money to pretend to be my wife to honor my parents. This made my mother feel that my daughter-in-law is becoming more and more sensible now and no longer treats my wife coldly. , and my wife also began to reflect on her past attitude because of the change in her mother's attitude, and I brought the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law back to a healthy track.

Many women regard men's private money as poison to the family, but as long as the private money is used in the right place, it can be a great tonic for the marriage.

Don’t put private money on the line

In the past, private money was also called personal money, which was a reserve fund used by women to realize their little dreams. With self-care money, women become freer and more free to do whatever they want. That dress that he criticized as useless, that pair of weird-looking high heels, that bag that makes him feel heartbroken just by looking at the price tag, no longer needs to ask for help from a man. Opinions: With private money, I have the final say in my happiness.

In fact, men are not like this. Their use of private money may not be more sophisticated than women. They also stay up at night for a new xenon lamp for their car, and they also toss and turn to raise money for concert tickets. There is no need to put men If your private money goes up to the point of betraying your family, then you really look down on the man and look down on yourself.

Let private money illuminate their dreams, although this dream may be too naive to be worth mentioning. Give their dreams a chance to survive, and humble dreams can also illuminate marriages. Those data do not prove that private money makes men feel more secure, free, and romantic. They run their own small treasury as if they are working on a business, with concentration, diligence and interest. Who dares to say that he will not use this energy to manage his marriage.