It is difficult for women to grasp some of the psychological characteristics of men in love today. So what are the various psychological changes of men in love?

Speaking of the unspoken rules of love for men, this reminds me of my boyfriend. He is a typical family man. Naturally, this kind of man has a strong maternal brilliance. He is considerate, understanding, a bit chauvinistic, and thinks that he is a good person. It's time to shoulder your responsibilities as a man. Many times, he would also tell white lies. Even if I asked him many times to tell me what was on his mind, he would cut off and tell only part of it. Sometimes, I always thought that he was an awkward big boy. In fact, , think about it carefully, these are the colors that men themselves are rich in. They don’t like to show weakness. Even if they encounter some difficult-to-understand things, they will analyze the people or things around them, or talk to friends, but they will not find their own women. A large part of the reason is that they don’t want themselves to Women bear too much.

Men generally believe that telling lies when necessary in love is not betrayal

Many women like to ask men such a question, "Do you love me or not?" If a man has had an unforgettable lover, then this question will escalate to "Do you love her more or me more?" Usually at this time, the man They will start lying mode because they know that if they say the wrong thing at this time, it will definitely be enough to anger a little wild cat. Therefore, men believe that adding white lies when necessary in love is to consolidate the existing love. This is not a betrayal of love.

Men have different definitions of lovers and wives

Compared with women, men have a larger proportion of emotional rationality. A man will be very keen to make judgments about his lover and wife, and thus make a decisive choice. Even if he falls in love with someone very emotionally, when he sees clearly When she would not make a good wife for a man, he would be looking for the kind of woman who would be a good homebody.

Women are completely opposite to men in this aspect, which is also a subjective reason why many women go astray. Women often believe that love transcends everything, so even when the other person has given up on entering the marriage hall with her, they are still struggling with themselves, and even do Act crazy to save it. In fact, women should develop some rational thinking mode at this time, instead of decisively rejecting it. Maybe this man is the best lover for her, but he may not be willing and suitable to enter into marriage with her. If she takes a step back, it will naturally be OK. Find the best family man who has been waiting behind you.

Even if a man is in love, he will not reject his confidante

Whether it is a man's own sense of superiority or selfishness, even if a man is in love, he will still keep in touch with his confidante, and sometimes even go out with his confidante on some occasions. Women often hope that they are the only ones in the eyes of their men, but for men, this is so indifferent and ascetic. No man will always lead the same woman to and from any occasion, because being with a beauty is sometimes a life. Relaxation, a kind of relaxation, is different from the emotion of love. It is just a kind of confiding in communication, and there is no other emotion.

Men always seem to be used to having old lovers in their hearts

Speaking of this, I feel quite helpless. No woman can accept that her man has another woman in his heart. I am no exception, but there is no way. This is the fact. Maybe it’s because men are naturally passionate. Maybe they want the woman they loved to still love them to make up for the regret and pain after the breakup. On the other hand, they also look back on their love through that past and wonder who was the most beautiful. Woolen cloth? There is no way, mentally living with a person always feels that the past has not been wasted, after all, this is also a scenery of life.

To be honest, as a woman, having endless arguments with such a man every day about old lovers is a sign of lack of self-confidence. Women should be themselves, have their own independent space, have the ability to make their own decisions, and maintain their own With a sense of mystery, you will be attracted to men everywhere, but you have not lost your aesthetic level towards the outside world. Such an elegant family woman is enough to defeat anyone who challenges you. In this world, there is not only one good man. Marriage must not only be suitable, but also have a certain emotional foundation. Marriage is not just playing house, only by being 100% serious can you achieve perfection.

Having said this, I couldn't help but laugh again. My man is really a big boy sometimes. Although I have always said that love will last forever, he will not expose me even if he has questions or disapproval. Men may be more realistic. They believe that love is inseparable from realistic ideas, and sometimes it is better to start the conquest mode directly when feelings invade.

Although I have always wanted him to be himself like me and be able to confide in close people, but knowing him as me, how could I not know how difficult this is for a man. He wouldn't force such a big boy. I understand more often that he just doesn't want a woman to bear too much. The joke "give each other some face", sometimes you have to know that this is not a joke.