A netizen asked me: Do you think more men or women betray marriages? I said that I have not done any research, and I am not very good at it, but my initial feeling is that there are more men. The reason for this feeling is not that I think women are any more noble than men, but that men and women are betraying their marriages. There are some essential differences in the procedures and actions.

If the bottom line of marriage is compared to a threshold, I think men jump out of this threshold impulsively amidst the shouts from the outside world, while women, although they long for the scenery outside the door, will I lingered on the balance beam on the threshold for a long time, but accidentally fell to the other side of the threshold under the influence of external force. Therefore, it is easier for men to betray a marriage than for women. Their choices are two extremes, either inside the marriage or outside the marriage.

Women are different. They are more interested in walking on the balance beam than men. There are far more women on the threshold than outside the door. After a long time, they get tired. When they get tired, they have to choose a flat ground in the end. Inhabiting, as for inside and outside the door, it all depends on the woman's self-knowledge of warmth and warmth.

I have a friend who always feels that married life is dull and boring, so she always feels a lingering sense of isolation and loneliness, and she has an increasing desire to have an affair. This thought makes her I struggled with my thoughts for a long time. Until one day, she sat alone in a corner of the bar. As she had expected, an elegant and personable man came into view. After the man snapped his fingers beautifully, the waiter brought two romantic glasses of wine. Red wine, she was drunk that day, but still sober after being drunk. She was helped by a man into a room. After the man took a shower very quickly, he asked her to take a shower too, but she stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling mirror. She suddenly woke up under the wash of water... After a struggle, she packed up everything and walked out of the room without looking back. She said that she was very glad that she did not walk out of the bathroom naked that night, and even more fortunate that she could suddenly wake up at the last moment of the bottom line of marriage, otherwise she would only be farther and farther away from her current happiness.

In fact, there are many such things. Almost all women, like men, have certain extramarital needs - for sex, and more for love other than loneliness.

I agree with this saying: Men cheat for sex, women cheat for love. Sex can be pure, but love is always unreasonable and chaotic. Therefore, most women who betray their marriages need to struggle. Their struggle may not be to get something, but often to express a kind of protest or want to show their love to others. Husbands prove their existence and weight. Their protests and proofs are emotional, so they are the most dangerous, even more dangerous than men's betrayal out of sexual stimulation. This is what I have always emphasized about emotion. Here’s why betrayal is more devastating to a marriage than physical betrayal.

In this way, it is not difficult to see how important it is for women to struggle in marriage. If they struggle well, they will be happy, but if they struggle poorly, they will be painful. So what I want to advise them is: struggle When trying to be more rational and opinionated, and less emotional and frivolous, the most fundamental thing is to take self-protective measures and not let both victory and defeat become harm that women can never escape.

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