Perhaps what is most lacking in the world is the medicine for regret. Whenever we have been searching for a long time to find someone to be married to for life, but as things go by, we will find that we are not satisfied in one way or another. I know clearly in my heart that "if you don't listen to the old man's words, you will suffer a loss", but you still have no regrets and "don't look back until you hit the wall!"... The following commandments are for reference by sisters who are in love!

The first commandment: Don’t let your in-laws meet prematurely.

I thought that it would be a good thing for me that the parents of both parties met and got closer to each other. In fact, this was a big mistake. After getting to know each other, misunderstandings and comparisons would gradually occur due to different living habits. If it's serious, no one will be able to tolerate it, and in the end, you will be the one to deal with it. The best thing is that it’s time to get married. When the in-laws of both parties meet again, it’s best to maintain a guest-like relationship! It’s best to meet less after marriage! As the saying goes: "Distance creates beauty!"

The second commandment: Don't develop a shopping preference for your future in-laws

Don't wait too much to buy things for your mother-in-law and father-in-law during the festival before marriage. But when I go to my own home, I don’t make any demands on my husband. If this happens for a long time, the husband will gradually become accustomed to thinking that buying things for his mother and father is normal, forming the concept that when a girl gets married, her husband's family should be the main one. I suggest that when shopping for holidays, both parties should share one share for each family. It will be easier to do so after you get into the habit of getting married.

The third commandment: Don’t be too enthusiastic about taking on the housework of your husband’s family before marriage

Don’t take the initiative to take on cooking, laundry, washing clothes for your husband, etc. before marriage. Girls should maintain certain Be reserved, otherwise your mother-in-law will think that you care about her son, or that you care about their family! Do some appropriately, but don’t get too involved!

The fourth commandment: Don’t talk too much about your natal family’s affairs at your mother-in-law’s house

You may be interested in talking to your mother-in-law. Don’t talk about your natal family’s affairs with your mother-in-law. Just talk if you feel bored. Talk about TV series and current affairs. The less your husband’s family knows about your own family’s affairs, the better! Especially if you have sisters and brothers, whose parents bought a house, who bought a car, etc.! In the future, when you buy a house, a car, etc., your mother-in-law will pay attention to whether you have received financial support from your mother's family!

The fifth commandment: Don’t meet your in-laws too early

See you again if you think you are okay. After you have met, don't stay in your husband's house all day long, otherwise it will make them think that you care too much about their son's relationship. Girls should hold it in check when it's time to be careful.

The Sixth Commandment: Never spend the night at your husband’s house before marriage

The reason for spending the night at your husband’s house too early is the same as the third commandment, only worse!

The Seventh Commandment: Having sex before marriage is known to your husband’s family

Do you need to explain the reason! Let your in-laws look down upon you! If you catch up with a busy mother-in-law, you are dead!

The Eighth Commandment: Go to your husband’s house to celebrate New Year’s Eve!

There is plenty of time after marriage, so you should spend more time with your parents now! The reason is the same as the third commandment!

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