1. Having a beautiful "iron buddy" will make people more proud

In fact, male psychology is the same as that of women, both subtle and unpredictable. Men may all long for a confidante. If good friends are like fine wine, female friends are undoubtedly a very intoxicating one. They are more attentive, and because of their different status, they can help men better than their lovers; if it is a confidante who is full of masculine temperament, , you can even do things more effectively than men, what a wonderful thing it is.

　2. She does not monopolize you, but she is connected with you

Once a woman becomes a wife, she will no longer look at men objectively. They like to be monopolistic, but a confidante will not. Most people have their own hidden personalities. If a man's significant other is a woman, he is more likely to be his confidante.

3. How can such a gentle embrace not make a man's heart flutter?

If he is depressed, he may get drunk. If he has some strength and courage, he may find someone to fight. However, if he has a considerate female friend, he might talk to her or even cry.

A male friend is definitely not allowed to do this. Even if others don’t know, he himself cannot act pitifully in front of the same sex. Confidantees are not scary. They feel sorry for the occasional weakness of men in front of them, and prefer to truly experience this weakness.

4. A confidant is a kind of dedication without asking for anything in return

Xuan is a down-to-earth man, but it is a pity that his career failed in his fleeting years. His wife couldn't help, and his long-time friend Xue stayed with him and started from scratch again, just like he had started from scratch. Two years later, Xuandong made a comeback. The house and car were returned, and the family returned to its former affluent life. In the past two years, Xue has not only done what ordinary friends would do, but also given her unique wisdom and tenderness as a woman. In fact, that's it. For a confidante like Xue, Xuan's happiness and success are the rewards she wants.

5. Confidantees are usually very smart

If a woman wants to stay in a man's life forever, she must either be his mother, or be a "confidante" that he will never get. Ultimately, a confidante is many things. Love is too short and marriage is too boring. Only confidante can last long. Therefore, women who are comfortable being a man's confidante are usually very open-minded and smart.

6. Satisfies men’s vanity

Some women are born to be friends. They like relaxed relationships and hate restraint just like men. This is undoubtedly the type of friend that more men appreciate. So even if they are not so "confidant", men still like to be friends with such women.

Enjoying the care and closeness of a woman other than his wife or couple can satisfy a man's vanity to a great extent.

7. It can inspire men to be more tolerant and understanding

For example, when drinking in a pub, a man can have a drinking lawsuit with someone of the same sex and argue over a drink or two, but this is not the case with women. Friends of the opposite sex can inspire men to be more tolerant and understanding, and do so willingly. This is a gender characteristic. The strong like to take care of the weak.

So the woman is loved and cared for, and the man satisfies the male's vanity. This is the most fundamental thing about a confidante. Since we are willing, how can we not get along wonderfully?

8. Smart men can enjoy the "blessing of being together"

What if the first confidante becomes his woman, and then he meets another woman who is equally lovely, or even more charming? ? A man's possessiveness prevents him from letting her go, but bigamy is not only abhorrent but also illegal; his lover also has too much lust, so it is better to find her as a confidant. He turned his love into friendship and gave it to her. He loved his wife in every possible way at home and loved his confidante outside.