Eight "Fear"s of Divorce What are you most afraid of?
One is afraid of seeing things and thinking about emotions. The marriage is divorced, but the period of living together is deeply imprinted in my heart. Although I wish I could erase it and forget about him completely, the tea cups we used together, the murals we bought together, The small shops I visited, the small towns we traveled to together...everything can bring back sweet and painful memories of the past.
The second is fear of relatives and friends. They come one after another, go one after another, comfort you with similar sentences, feel sorry for you with similar actions, wish you could call him a heartless man more, and wish you could call her a heartless girl more. But quietly, that name that makes you heartbroken and sad becomes lingering in your mind again.
The third fear is loneliness. In the past, when we were noisy or quarrelsome, it was always just two people together, and we always felt that there was too little time and not enough time to allocate. Suddenly, I had a lot of time to myself, and I was a little bit helpless, wandering around, not knowing what to do.
The four are afraid of meeting each other on a narrow road. Finally I was able to calm down a little. Suddenly I looked up and saw that the person I had shared the bed with was either lonely, calm or radiant. Lonely, no way! It makes you feel distressed; even if your face is radiant, it won’t do! It makes you feel resentful; but you can't calm down, and you think how can that person treat you, your former close lover, like a stranger? Is your temperament too cold? Anyway, I still can't accept it and feel sad.
Wu is afraid that the other party will remarry soon. In fact, divorce and remarriage are normal to outsiders, but it is different for insiders. Even if I have no love for that person, I am still angry after hearing the news. I can't calm down for a long time, and I hate him for his unkindness and unrighteousness. , heartless, and sad that all the sweet words in the past have become a passing smoke.
Six are afraid that the child will ask for "Dad" and "Mom". Just that little mouth screamed, and the wound in your heart began to hurt uncontrollably. I usually work very hard to make up for the lost love for my children. But as soon as these two simple words were spoken, I was suddenly shocked and realized that no matter how hard I try, there is a kind of love that I can't let go of no matter what.
Qi is afraid that remarriage will still be unsatisfactory. Because of a failed marriage, you don't really believe in the care and attentiveness of others. Even if that person takes out his heart and lungs and is a hundred times better than the person who hurt you in the past, you still can't help but doubt: All the romantic entanglements before marriage are fake. Only the pots, pans, quarrels and quarrels after marriage are real and unadulterated!
I am afraid of seeing other people’s love and sweetness. Wandering on the street, I accidentally saw an ordinary couple arranging their wind-tossed hair. Wandering in a shopping mall, I accidentally saw an old friend happily putting on new clothes handed over by her husband. I went shopping for groceries and bumped into each other again. The couple across from each other who had been quarreling endlessly yesterday walked past happily carrying vegetables and radishes with bright faces... I felt sour and tears suddenly fell down. How could they make their ordinary life so peaceful? Woolen cloth?
In short, I left in such a hurry that I was really scared.
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