Some people think that mental cheating is not cheating, so there is no need to make a fuss. In fact, this is dead wrong. Many men and women who have cheated on their spouse have lost their sexual interest and even become bored and disgusted with the other spouse, which affects the quality of life of the couple. If the opportunity is ripe, substantive cheating will be a matter of course. Therefore, we must focus on prevention. If there are signs of mental infidelity, we must take targeted measures to nip it in the bud. Mental infidelity usually has the following symptoms:

1. Often making excuses not to go home, preferring to be alone at home

The spouse who has mental infidelity will find it boring to go home , often find excuses not to go home, and even if they go home, they would rather be alone. If the other party is used to watching TV after dinner, then he or she will play on the computer or find an excuse to do other things. Even if they are idle and bored, they don't want to have fun with each other. When some couples encounter this situation, they think that the dullness of marriage is inevitable. In fact, this dullness hides deep crises.

2. Be inexplicably bored and reject others from thousands of miles away

The person who has cheated will have an object of affection in his/her heart, and his (her) attention When your energy is often focused on other people, you may feel that married life is boring or uninteresting, and you may feel that your current partner is just burdensome and redundant. Therefore, when the other party asks about something, or the other party wants to take the initiative to be intimate, they are often rejected.

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3. Get Compare the other party with others and see that the other party is not good at everything

In marriage, see the other party as being bad at everything. You will even blame the other party for trivial matters and deliberately find fault. Even if the other party deliberately behaves, he will always be inferior. He (she) always compares the other person with others, overtly or covertly, and the more he or she compares, the less interesting it becomes.

4. Reluctant to accommodate the other party, and ignore the other party when the situation is aroused

Very reluctant to accommodate the other party. Once the other party is aroused, even if the other party is crying with grievance, he ( She) was too lazy to make do with it, but left the other person aside and went about her own business or went to find entertainment by herself. In daily life, the attitude is lukewarm and lukewarm, and it is rare for someone to take the initiative to get intimate with the other person. After a quarrel, it is easy to fall into a long cold war.

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5. Can’t remember each other’s birthday, and giving gifts is just perfunctory

One spouse has cheated on her mentally. , even if you want to maintain your enthusiasm for marriage, it is impossible to do so. Therefore, I often forget the birthday of the other party. Even if I remember, I will not carefully choose the gift, and even if I give it, it will only be perfunctory.

6. Showing indifference to the other person’s emotional response

The person who has had an affair seems to have nothing to do with the other person’s emotional response. You are happy and he (she) is not happy, and you are sad for him ( She) is indifferent.

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