If a man excuses himself after he is done by saying that he drank too much and cannot remember clearly, it only proves that the man is shirking responsibility. In this regard, drunken sex is actually a dual issue involving science and morality.

"Drunk sex" is actually an excuse for men to have sex, because research shows that even if a man can "succeed" after drinking too much, he will have difficulty ejaculating; if a man drinks too much for a long time, he usually can only wait for impotence.

The study found that when the alcohol concentration in the blood reached 0.06, the time it took for the volunteers to ejaculate was significantly prolonged; when the concentration reached 0.09, many volunteers were simply unable to ejaculate. But from the perspective of erectile function, men still have the ability to "commit crimes" after being drunk. A study from the University of Washington concluded that there was no significant difference in male erections between those who were drunk and those who were not. In other words, drinking alcohol has no significant effect on erections, regardless of ejaculation.

Even if drinking alcohol doesn't affect a man's erection, alcohol may lead to poor performance in bed. Research shows that alcohol can anesthetize cells in male and female genital tissues, making it difficult for both parties to achieve "orgasm" after drinking.

A study from the University of Washington shows that women find it more difficult to be sexually aroused after drinking a lot of alcohol; while men, as mentioned above, may not be able to ejaculate after drinking to a certain extent - don’t think that this can prolong sexual intercourse. As a result, the taste is definitely unpleasant. Moreover, alcohol can make people think slowly and move clumsily, which will bring great obstacles to the passionate moment.

If you encounter men using this excuse to shirk their responsibilities in the future, women should not be fooled by them again, because this is no longer a matter of instinct, but a matter of character.

Analysis of six reasons why men cheat

In the TV series "Golden Wedding", in order to prevent her husband from cheating, the wife forbids him from working in another place because there is a young girl there who admires him and he admires her very much. This almost ruined the husband's future and brought the relationship between the couple to a deadlock. Such situations abound in real life.

Recently, "Guoke.com" cited a survey conducted by American marriage expert M. Gray Newman to analyze the reasons why men cheat.

During the investigation, Newman looked at some past reports on the reasons for men's infidelity and found that most of the answers came from the wife's perspective. He wondered, if he asked men, would he get a more truthful answer? To this end, he conducted an on-site investigation of 200 men who had had affairs and those who had not had affairs to find out the real reasons for their affairs. The following is the conclusion reached:

1. 68% of men feel guilty when they cheat. Newman points out that 68% of men who cheat never thought they would be unfaithful, and almost all of them wish they hadn't cheated. But apparently, guilt can't make a man stop cheating.

2. 77% of men who cheated had a friend who also had an affair. Spending a lot of time with friends who have cheated on you can make men feel that infidelity is normal. His subconscious told himself: My friend is a good man, but he just happened to cheat on his wife. No matter how good a man is, he will inevitably cheat. Therefore, as a wife, you should let your husband go to bars less often, associate less with people who have affairs, do more outdoor sports, make friends with people who have happy families, and create an environment that protects marriage.

3. 48% of men believe that lack of emotional satisfaction is the primary reason for their cheating. Newman said: "In fact, men are also emotional animals. They want to be appreciated by their wives, and they also want women to understand the efforts they have made to do everything well." The problem is that, unlike women, men rarely speak out These feelings. Therefore, always praise and be considerate to your lover, so that he feels that you need him, care about him, and care about him. Of course, physical satisfaction is also important. After all, 8% of men say that dissatisfaction with desire is the main reason for their infidelity.

4. Only 12% of men who cheated found their lover more attractive than their wife. That said, most men don't cheat to get better sex from a more beautiful woman. "Most of the time it's just to fill the emotional emptiness." Therefore, the wife should work hard to make the relationship between husband and wife sweeter and closer, pay more attention to her husband, and encourage and affirm her sex life more.

5. 40% of men meet another woman at work. "Usually the object of a man's affair is the woman in the office who appreciates him, respects him, and praises his efforts." Newman said that this is another important reason for making him feel valuable at home.

6. 6% of men who cheated had sex on the same day they met another woman. 73% of men do not cheat on another woman until they have known her for more than a month. This means you can stop this from happening before he betrays you. Common signs include: he spends more and more time away from home, he stops asking you for sex, he travels more frequently, he hangs up on you, etc. Don't question him directly, it's better to use your own behavior to guide him to change and lead your relationship back on the right track, such as praising him, saying you love him, telling him how you feel about this relationship, etc.

If a man is carefree, there may be something wrong with his brain

An adult brain weighs only 1.4 kilograms, equivalent to a small cantaloupe, but it can compose symphonies, design aircraft engines, and predict the paths of orbiting planets. What is the secret behind this "most complex" human organ?

According to research by scientists, only 5% of mammals will establish exclusive lifelong partnerships with their partners, and the prairie vole is one of them. What is it that keeps the good feeling between those voles and their mates forever? It's something called oxytocin secreted by the brain. Experiments have shown that voles with more oxytocin receptors will maintain higher loyalty; while voles with fewer oxytocin receptors will look for new partners.

What about humans? The findings suggest that humans, like prairie voles, release oxytocin during important bonding moments such as childbirth, feeding, and mating. According to clinical studies, inhaling oxytocin via a nasal spray induces feelings of trust. Also, this study shows that men who are born with lower levels of oxytocin are less likely to get married.

"Those playboys who fall in love with someone they meet may also have lower oxytocin levels in their brains." However, the researchers also said that oxytocin is not the "ultimate secret" to love, "because oxytocin is just a very complex It is a small aspect of the brain system, and it is not the only chemical information involved in the production of love and affection in the brain."