After a busy day's work, some men find themselves losing interest in sex when facing their gentle wives. The decline in desire makes most men feel uneasy. Are they suffering from some disease? How should they be treated? In fact, men's sexual frigidity has physical, psychological and disease reasons, and the treatment methods also vary from person to person. Family burden and work pressure will weaken sexual fantasies and desires. At this time, men are more inclined to communicate at various levels, which is said to be frigid. Especially for middle-aged and older men, all they need is a hug, a kiss or an intimate whisper. Sexual intercourse in a pure sense does not have much appeal to married men.

As men age, the secretion of male hormones in their bodies will gradually decrease, and their requirements for sexual life will not be so strong. This is an objective physiological change and does not require special treatment.

For sexual frigidity caused by mental factors, after the mental factors are eliminated, it is still necessary to strengthen the study of sexual knowledge and skills, and pay special attention to the close cooperation between the couple. The woman should not blindly blame, but should be more considerate to eliminate the man's tension. At the same time, you can touch sexual excitement points to stimulate and reawaken men's sexual excitement.

Of course, if frigidity is caused by a disease, the primary disease must be treated first. For example, if it is caused by diabetes, blood sugar must be properly controlled; if it is caused by drugs, the drugs that cause frigidity must be stopped. In addition to the above treatments, you can also take short-term oral testosterone, or inject testosterone propionate, or take certain traditional Chinese medicines, such as Guilingji, Cistanche deserticola, Yizhiren, Morinda officinalis, Cynomorium cynomorium, Curculigo, etc.

Most women have a misconception that men have a strong sexual desire. This idea is mainly because they were young when they got married and were in the period of vigorous sexual desire. At that time, they always wanted to "do that thing", and men have more sexual fantasies than women, so women think that men have strong sexual desire.

Drinking black tea before sex can stimulate sexual desire

Tea is often regarded as a symbol of purity of mind and ascetic desire, but in fact, choosing tea with different compatibility according to human body conditions will not only not inhibit sexual desire, but also can tonify the kidneys and strengthen the body, and even enhance sexual function and increase sexual excitement. role. Generally speaking, black tea is warm in nature, can remove cold, warm the stomach, and is more nutritious; green tea is cool in nature, and its main effect is to clear away heat and refresh the mind. Therefore, if you need to nourish the kidneys and strengthen yang, it is recommended to mainly use warm black tea.

It is true that drinking tea in moderation is good for health and can prevent and treat certain diseases. It has certain scientific reasons for improving sexual function. For example, tea contains caffeine, theophylline and theobromine, which have the functions of refreshing the mind and relieving fatigue. Drinking a cup of tea before having sex can help improve the quality of sexual intercourse.

However, it is not recommended to drink strong tea at night, as this will affect sleep and is not good for the body. In addition, things must go to extremes. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that excessive drinking of strong tea will damage the kidneys due to excessive diuresis. If kidney qi is damaged, sexual performance will decrease. Moreover, because tea is bitter and cold in nature, people with kidney yang deficiency should not drink too much.

Drinking red wine can also stimulate sexual desire

In fact, alcohol is an inhibitor that excites the human body's physiology in the early stage and inhibits it in the later stage. It even inhibits the sexual organs, so it should only be tasted lightly. Drinking too much will lead to poor sex performance. When used in moderation, alcohol is an excellent aphrodisiac. It has the effect of relieving tension and anxiety, helping to boost courage and enhance the spirit of adventure.

An expert who has a unique love for red wine said: “Red wine gives people a mysterious feeling, and its taste will change due to external factors. The taste can become very complex. It is best to drink when eating with your lover, but you don’t need to drink too much. More, two glasses can be very relaxing. The most important thing is to use a large wine glass to hold the wine. As long as you shake it gently, the aroma of the wine will overflow. Even if the wine is not intoxicating, people will be intoxicated, and the atmosphere will suddenly become very romantic. .