I have a 44 -year -old "old -age" predecessor to get married immediately, and the object is a man in his early thirties. It is said that the two met at a seminar and soon fell in love. Looking at the sweet smile on the face of the senior now, I can't help but think that the independent strong woman who lived a single life with great success has turned into a young woman waiting to be married in the blink of an eye. It’s so unpredictable!

In fact, the so-called early marriage and late marriage should not be based on age as the only criterion, but should take into account the psychological and personality maturity of both parties. If your psychology and personality are not yet mature, even getting married in your forties or fifties is considered an "early marriage." Only those who have clear values ​​and cautious views on marriage can truly enter the "marriage age". People are always prone to lose their pace because of "marriage age" in the secular sense. Many times, the things you want to do and the dreams that have not yet been realized often become the moon in the mirror just for the sake of the "marriage age" of a troublesome child.

You are troubled: I should at least get married when I am twenty-six years old. In that case, should I postpone my plan to study comics in Japan? Will I ever be able to meet a Prince Charming who supports my dreams? As a result, you spent all your thoughts on finding the man who could marry you when you were twenty-six years old. Unknowingly, your study plan was postponed indefinitely, but Mr. Right still didn't show up.

You are so anxious and troubled, but who can you blame? Marriage is a serious life event, but it is not the whole life. A marriage that is led by romantic thoughts is a castle in the air. When it comes to marriage, you should have the stability of an elephant's steps and the flexibility of a fox's tail. Twenty-seven years old, these are two of my favorite rock singers, Janis Lyn Joplin and James Marshall Hendrix (the former is a famous female rock singer, and the latter is a famous electric guitar genius in the history of rock and roll. Both of them died at the age of 27 due to He was addicted to alcohol and died from taking too many narcotics. —Translator's Note) To commemorate them, I once clenched my fist and said to myself when I was in college: "Okay, I'll get married when I'm twenty-seven!" ”

Everyone laughed, but I was very serious about that decision at the time. Entering society in the blink of an eye, twenty-seven years old is just around the corner. I started to get anxious. However, now that I think about it, my anxiety at that time was completely unnecessary. Because at that time, I neither had a suitable man around me, nor had I made any psychological or material preparations for marriage.

All in all, twenty-seven was by no means the appropriate age for me to get married. Elders may sometimes say to you earnestly: When a woman wants to get married, it means that you have reached the "marriage age". It sounds reasonable at first glance, but you must know that what elders call "the time when you want to get married" often refers to the age of twenty when a woman still blushes when she sees a young man!

At these times, you can judge that you are of marriageable age:

When you love him very, very much. If you feel that if you are not with him, your life will be dull in the future. If you feel that there will never be a good man like him in the future - then, get married! Catching him is the top priority!

When the values ​​​​for men change. You start to care about your bankbook and understand that men cannot always protect you from wind and rain - good, you are sensible! There is no harm in getting married now.

You are pregnant with the child you love. You are pregnant with his child, and all you want to do is give birth to the child and be a good mother - oh, you are already deeply involved. Stop talking nonsense and hurry up to agree on a wedding date

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