Psychologists believe that moderate "tongue war" between couples is beneficial. In a couple's quarrel, perhaps the man's psychological defense mechanism is not sound enough, and his wife's harsh words penetrate his heart at once. But after a few more quarrels, his inner "defender" will be tempered and he will know how to stick to his boundaries. Mature men and women also learn the rules of quarrels through actual confrontations. They will learn how to be measured and rational through arguments.

When couples quarrel, they should at least maintain the following sense of proportion:

After the quarrel, no grudges are left behind, that is, the views of both parties are frank and clear, and a way to resolve the conflict is found to achieve unity on a new basis.

Do not implement sexual punishment, that is, do not use rejection of marital life as a means of "treating" the other person. The relationship between husband and wife is different from the general heterosexual relationship. Husband and wife express and enhance their closeness to each other through sex.

Sexual punishment by either party will hurt the self-esteem of the other party, leading to alienation and unfamiliarity between the couple. Men are more likely to be driven toward another woman by this sense of alienation.

Don't embarrass your children. When couples quarrel, children should not be allowed to play the role of bystanders, mediators or even participants in their parents' "war".

Don't let a "war of words" escalate into violence, because men often have trouble controlling themselves.

The problem with women’s frigidity lies with men

Some men cheat because their wives are not satisfied with their marital life. But before cheating, have you analyzed why your wife is in this situation? Don't just blame your wife for being uncooperative. In fact, many situations are caused by your lack of understanding of life.

I believe that sexual frigidity is not innate, and there are many factors that cannot be understood.

1. Of course, there are some cases where a man has violently assaulted her, but we should care and protect such women more. Even if she is incompatible with others, we should not complain about her. After all, she has been She has suffered enough damage, and we cannot ask her for anything.

2. Maybe there are indeed a few women who are born with frigidity. When a man encounters such a woman, he can only endure it by himself. But after all, there are not many such cases. If you encounter such a woman, you are lucky, haha.

"Women are made of water and are meant for pain." I believe everyone knows this, but often they know that if they don't do it well, they really need to improve as a man, otherwise there won't be more women in this society. interested in you. In many cases, we have to take into account the body and mood of women. If you only care about your own desires and want to be satisfied, and don't care about your lover's feelings, then you may lose more happiness in the near future. Everyone is equal. Yes, don’t ruin all your future sexual happiness because of your temporary lust.

3. Some men are more chauvinistic and think that their wives are like their private products. When they are happy, they don’t care whether their wives are interested or not. After drinking, they go to bed and ask their wives for what they want. They don’t care about their wives’ tastes. A man who just takes out his gun, goes into a hole, rushes to fight, and then goes to bed enjoying himself. Isn't this kind of man forcing his wife to feel disgusted with him? This is the result of you not understanding the mood. It’s not strange that you become frigid over time.

4. Some women suffer from sexual frigidity due to some external factors. When a woman finds out that her husband has slept with another woman, how much interest does she have in being willing to have the same love affair with her husband as before? Isn't this the man's fault? There are many times when we just don't take care of our guns, so we can't happily take a dip in the cave.

Men, for your long-term sexual happiness, please learn how to flirt first.

What are the psychological emotions of asexual couples?

The pressure of modern life, people's outlook on life, economy, family and morality are diversified and free to develop. In addition, the sexual concepts of modern couples are impacted and affected by the contradiction between tradition and avant-garde, which will inevitably lead to many contradictions in love and sex. and variation, so many couples adopt the golden mean. Instead of dividing their work and going their separate ways, they live a "sexless couple" life under the same roof, either caringly and lovingly or as strangers.

Successful career, undistracted "sex"

Zhihua is not good-looking, but he is very handsome and blessed. The beautiful and elegant Hongying chooses him against all odds. Zhihua lived up to Hongying's expectations and raised funds to start a company. Within a year, he not only owned a high-end villa, allowing Hongying to live a comfortable and prosperous life, but also had his own Mercedes-Benz to take them around "countries" in a romantic way. It is conceivable how lingering and intoxicating their sex life is.

Zhihua, who had great ambitions, was not proud of the results of his small trial. He took advantage of the situation and opened several branches across the country, traveling back and forth between several major cities day and night. The busy work made him exhausted. Originally, I didn't have much time to reunite with Hongying. When I got home, I just wanted to have a good sleep. The ecstatic sex we once had can only become distant "past things". Hongying, who is still in her thirties, has to suppress her increasingly strong sexual desire and live a "sexless" life.

Many people devote all their efforts to their careers, so much so that they neglect their wives and become "sexless couples." In Zhihua's view, a successful career will give him the power to influence his wife's affairs, and he will have the wealth to let his wife enjoy glory and wealth. His wife should also gain happiness and satisfaction from these luxuries that ordinary people dream of. However, he forgot that humans are advanced animals with feelings. No matter how rich the material life is, if there is no sex, it is still not a perfect marriage. Hongying has lived with the contradiction between sexual repression and sexual desire for many years, which may lead to psychological disorders.

A loveless marriage, sleeping together without "sexual" thoughts

In his troubled life, he had complicated emotional relationships with three women. One is Miss Xing, who is as beautiful as a flower but aloof and arrogant. The two of them have been together for less than a year, but he cannot stand her bossy young lady style and has to reluctantly part ways with her. The other is a successful but narrow-minded Miss Zeng who lives with him. The third one is Xiaorou. She has neither beauty nor career, but she became his wife. This is due to her gentleness, consideration, virtuousness, magnanimity, and reasonableness. Whenever he is unhappy, as long as he makes a phone call, Xiaorou will come as scheduled and give him comfort, the warmth of a woman, and the glue-like sex.