This is one of the sexual misunderstandings among women. The first manifestation is a lack of adequate knowledge and understanding of one's own physiological structure, sexual functions and sexual responses. With the popularization of family planning and women's health care, wives' knowledge about contraception, pregnancy and women's diseases has increased a lot compared with the past. However, due to limitations of traditions and customs, more than half of wives still do not know what the most sensitive sexual parts of women are. , 40% of wives don’t know or can’t explain how women’s orgasm behaves.

Is this because sexual knowledge is difficult to obtain? I'm afraid not. Since the reform and opening up, there have been more than 200 sexology books published in my country, and almost every one of them talks about these common senses to a greater or lesser extent. However, there are very few female readers, even fewer female buyers, and very few female disseminators of such knowledge. On the one hand, many people still believe that women will become a "disaster" if they have sexual knowledge. Some women who bought such a book were attacked by their husbands and parents. Even after experts and scholars affirmed it, they were still threatened with divorce.

On the other hand, although married middle-aged women do not discuss their sexual life in private, most of them comment on their husbands. Very few of them talk about taking the initiative to learn sexual knowledge and being able to use scientific knowledge. Women who come to sift through privately circulated information (mostly false) are even rarer. Why do you feel the need but don’t learn? One of the main reasons is that many wives feel that since their husbands dominate their sexual life, he should learn sexual knowledge, be responsible for the harmony of sexual life, or even just work hard on it. Satisfy yourself. After all, wives often "follow the chicken when they marry a chicken, and follow a dog when they marry a dog" in their sexual life. Now that I have fulfilled my obligation of "dedication", he should take on the responsibility of promoting harmony. Some wives simply said: "This kind of thing all depends on meeting a good husband." Others advanced to the theory: "The fundamental problem is to transform men."

This kind of simple "dedication" Sexual concepts will bring several undesirable consequences: 1. When her husband is rough or even sexually abusive, the wife lacks the inner motivation to resist, and lacks the knowledge and methods to promote change. When people have general sexual disharmony, the wife tends to blame her husband too much, which in turn aggravates the conflict. Among husbands who suspect premature ejaculation, quite a few are actually caused or aggravated by their wives’ blaming. 3. Even if the sex life goes well, it is difficult for a wife who is simply "dedicated" to experience its fun and value. Instead, it will lead to indifference and alienation, which will naturally aggravate the lack of feelings and eventually form a vicious circle. 4. Even if the relationship is relatively coordinated, the wife may lack the internal motivation to continuously improve and improve. In the long run, it will easily lead to psychological fatigue (boredom, desirelessness, avoidance, etc.) for both parties.

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