The word "forbearance" has long been forgotten by people along with "Desire", and the opposite is the way of rebellion spreading in marriages. Because people care more and more about their own feelings and are unwilling to sacrifice themselves to maintain family harmony.

After long-term pressure, Lin Lao broke out

"If you were still studying, I would have divorced her long ago." When my father said this, I was extremely surprised. Ever since he was a child, he has always been a good old man. He listens to my mother in everything. He has to do all the work, cooking, and making money. Unexpectedly, when I was approaching 50, I suddenly got divorced.

During that time, my father always disliked my mother, like a thorn in his side and a thorn in his throat. No matter how hard his family tried to persuade him, he said, "I've been angry for decades and I've had enough. Now that you're all grown up, I don't have anything to worry about anymore."

——Narrator: Yan Light

Comments:

This kind of rebellion is the most terrifying and the hardest to reverse. Because in other rebellious periods, we still have a long time to tolerate each other and correct ourselves, but this is not the case. The power of decades of accumulated dissatisfaction and depression is overwhelming, and few people have the energy to turn things around, unless they themselves have suffered. Frustrated, he realized again that his old wife was the best for him.

The inspiration for all young couples is that couples should be more tolerant and understanding, and speak openly if they have anything to say. Children should also pay more attention to their parents and interact with them more to resolve conflicts between them.

The more I look at him, the more unpleasant I become.

Looking at the same person every day, I know he will change a pair of socks every few days and only laugh when watching war movies. Onions are the food he dislikes the most. Are there any other treasures that can be mined? Every bit of the excitement of marriage was gone.

I went back to his house during the Chinese New Year, and was disturbed by the complicated family affairs of his seven aunts and eight aunts, which made me extremely irritable. After I came back, I couldn’t figure out what was going on with me. I started to get angry at my innocent husband. I didn’t like it. I asked whether I should put oil or salt first. I would get impatient when I heard the slightest objection. I would say no on the phone. I died within a minute and began to miss my single life so much that I even wondered if I was going through menopause early. He said extremely depressedly, what are you dissatisfied with?

——Jiang Chang, married for 3 years

Comments:

This is really a contradiction. When people are lonely, they long for a home, but ordinary days are depressing. A kind of helplessness and resentment towards life will continue to accumulate. One day, it is directly released in an aggressive, confrontational, and angry mood. At this time, people tend to act quite rebellious and even unable to communicate.

Married life is definitely much more complicated than single life. Many relationship conflicts require patience to sort out and resolve. However, when another person in the marriage understands that this kind of rebellion is actually the same as adolescent rebellion, if the partner uses tolerance and peace Treat it with a peaceful attitude and it will be cured without treatment.

I just want to lead him.

It’s okay when you’re in love. All his actions follow the command, and all major and minor events are reported in advance. But I didn’t expect that after only half a year of marriage, his face changed drastically. He was always disobedient, and he was even more stubborn than an ox. He also had his own fallacy: Ask him not to throw things away. He said: Home is a place where people can run wild; He should not spend money randomly to buy lottery tickets, he said: there is no big money without spending a small amount of money; he asked him not to go to his brother to play cards all night, he said it would be shameless.

So the main content of our married life became taming and anti-taming. If he throws things around, I will hide them so that he can never find them again; if he doesn’t come home, I will make phone calls desperately. When he comes home, I will lock the door and let him sleep in the living room to give him some punishment. He didn't dare to do it again. But the more he fought, the more violent his rebellious disorder became.

——Dandan, married for 1 year

Comments:

When his true temperament is revealed, it is inappropriate to insist that the east wind prevails over the west wind and argue that I am right and you are wrong.

If you are not used to him being like this, or you think it is not a bad thing, you don’t have to correct him. Establishing a peaceful and harmonious marriage ecological environment is the way to go. Sometimes, appropriate compromise can make the other party understand you with half the effort. mind.

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