The whispers on the pillow and a few private conversations are full of intimacy and affection. But if the topic is wrong, it will also make people lose their temper. Ye Bin, director of the Psychological Counseling Center of East China Normal University, gave some suggestions to guide people to say less "sex" words.

Why do you make so little money? In this economic society, in many cases monetary income is the standard to measure a person's success. Even if this complaint is unintentional, it will put a lot of pressure on the other party. After a responsible husband hears this, he will consider whether he should change his job or find a second way to make money, and then nothing will happen naturally.

Who called (sent text message) just now? Everyone has their own privacy. Snooping, checking your partner's communication records, text messages, etc. are all signs of distrust. While you're lying in bed, it's best not to ask your partner about personal matters. Wait for him to tell you.

Your classmates have all been promoted/promoted. Men love saving face most. Although they don’t say it with their mouths, they will still compare themselves with others, especially their former classmates, to see who is developing better. When you bring up this matter when you should be deeply affectionate, your husband will feel that his self-esteem has been damaged, his efforts will seem to be denied, and naturally he will not be in the mood to continue to be with you.

Is there still room for making money? Business matters are best settled in the office rather than taken home, especially to bed. Even if the wife just mentions it coquettishly and kindly, to the husband's ears, it may imply that she is incompetent at work. So when the business is dead, the sex life is also dead.

In addition, Ye Bin also pointed out that when the sentence "Turn off the lights and go to bed early" is right, such as after dinner or watching TV, it can arouse sexual desire and euphemistically express "I want to be with you." One night of love" intention. But if someone is already lying on the bed and says this coldly, the implicit tenderness will be gone. In bed, you should also avoid saying, "Your mom/dad is nagging on the phone again..." Husbands often go in and out of one ear when faced with their wife's nagging.

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