Mei, the "leftover girl" in the office, is getting married. When she sent out the wedding invitation, our jaws dropped to the ground in shock. In my memory, she had never been in love and had only known her boyfriend for a few months through an introduction. She entered the siege so quickly, so fast that we couldn't help but worry about it.

I have been colleagues with Mei for several years. With a rather dignified appearance and a high degree of education, she originally had many suitors, but she refused to accept them all. Later I heard that she had an unforgettable love in college, but this love was killed by Mei's parents. However, even though people are separated, love still remains. Even after so many years of separation, she still misses him.

No wonderful youth can withstand the passage of time. Soon, Mei changed from a "wonderful girl" to a "leftover girl". I chatted with her many times and when talking about marriage, Mei always had a look on her face. He smiled bitterly, and occasionally his eyes would become wet. Her expression let us know that she couldn't let go of that relationship after all.

However, to our surprise, she was such a girl, and a class reunion still changed her. We don’t know what happened at that class reunion, whether we met that person, or that person already had another “her”... There’s no way to find out. In short, Mei suddenly changed. She first accepted her friends. Arranged a blind date, and then started dating tepidly...

This is actually a good result, but I don’t know why, looking at this wedding invitation, my mind suddenly flashed back to Mei’s recent marriage Something I said. That time, Mei said: "Without love, no matter who you marry, it is just a marriage." Suddenly I thought about it, didn't these words contain a kind of despair? And who can guarantee that this marriage is not a helpless make-shift? ?

I couldn’t help but think of a distant cousin of mine. She was equally delicate and well-educated, but she was "not good at all" and eventually became a "leftover girl" helplessly. The pressure of being a "leftover girl" was unbearable. At the age of 30, she finally married herself in a "flash wedding" style. My cousin quickly fell into a "war between two people" after she ended her single life. From her life background to her salary and income; from the nature of her job to her common interests and hobbies, everything that she didn't have time to care about before marriage is now being taken care of one by one until the end. This "make do" marriage was doomed to end.

In any age, marriage requires both men and women to understand and cherish each other. Marriage is not a child's play, don't "make do".

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