The number of juvenile sex crime cases is increasing day by day, and the numbness shown by a large number of victims is even more shocking. What problems do teenagers have with "sexuality"? How should we let our children receive healthy "sex education"?

Don’t let your children get lost in “sex”

The young victim’s numbness is surprising

Recently, cases of juvenile sex crimes have been disclosed from time to time. The group crimes committed by teenagers are shocking, and the numbness displayed by the victims is even more shocking. According to reports, in May last year, a 13-year-old girl was gang-raped three times by six boys in a month. The tragedy was ended when the girl's mother finally discovered that her daughter had not menstruated for two months. When asked why she didn't report the crime, the girl actually said: "It didn't do any harm to me!" What's even more puzzling is that when asked if she resisted at that time, she said she did, but because she couldn't fight against them. , just forget it.

Coincidentally, at around 2 pm on July 11, 2000, the girl quietly accompanied her girlfriend to a shopping mall in Ganjiakou to play with her girlfriend's "brother." In the next hour, eight innocent teenagers brutally raped Jingjing. During the entire crime process, some of the eight people committed violence and some were bystanders. How do children understand sexual issues and sex crimes?

“Sex” has become the third cause of juvenile delinquency

"Sexual issues have become the main motivation for juvenile crimes, second only to crimes for money and loyalty." Shang Xiuyun, judge of the Juvenile Division of the People's Court of Haidian District, Beijing, said, "Violent robbery, theft, intentional injury, and sexual crimes have become The main aspects of juvenile crime. "Authoritative data shows that 30% of the crimes committed by juveniles in China are sexual crimes. Shang Xiuyun believes that the environment in which children grow up is the main cause of juvenile crime. An expert survey report provided by Shang Xiuyun to reporters showed that 66% of juvenile offenders in juvenile detention centers often visited electronic entertainment halls before committing crimes, and more than 80% of delinquent juveniles had entertainment halls, dance halls, etc. nearby. place. The report also shows that more than 80% of juvenile offenders have been exposed to books, periodicals and audio-visual products containing violent and pornographic contents before committing crimes. Shang Xiuyun suggested that schools should pay attention to adolescent sex education classes. Many teenagers begin to commit deviant crimes because of their ignorance and curiosity about sex.

Children’s “precocious puberty” is worrying

"Children are maturing earlier and earlier. In addition to their physical health, they are also psychologically bolder than ever before." Zhang Yongsheng of the Beijing Youth Psychology and Legal Service Center said, "From several key middle schools to junior high schools, they are also showing unprecedented boldness." According to a student's survey, there are three major changes in the openness of sex, younger age, and girls pursuing boys. The changes in children's sexual concepts are even more surprising. For example, some boys can boldly ask girls, "What do you want." Are you a virgin?’, not everyone answered ‘yes’.” 150 members of the Beijing Municipal People's Political Consultative Conference spent four months completing a survey report on adolescent sexual health education. In the survey, it was found that 48.8% of middle school students approved of premarital sex, and 9.9% of them even believed that you can have sex at first sight. What's more, some students also use it as a kind of monetary transaction. 32.8% of students believe that having no friends of the opposite sex after the second year of high school will be looked down upon by classmates.

The "sex education" of teenagers should be generous and generous

Although there is sexual knowledge in our textbooks, these educations appear weak and lagging in front of children, which even leads some teenagers to regard sexual assault as a sign of maturity and charm. A comrade in charge of moral education at the Beijing Municipal Education Commission believes that there are deficiencies in sex education for minors. Teachers are not sure about the depth of teaching and have many concerns about explanations. Therefore, it has become a common phenomenon for teachers to skip some chapters. In addition, sensitive topics in adolescence such as "contraception" and "masturbation" should be re-understood. Contraception is about safe sex, while masturbation does not involve morality, but is a normal physiological phenomenon.