You can be gentle, but you must not be indulgent. There is no need to worry about a man's face in everything. Only a woman who has been fierce can a man remember her gentle appearance.

Don’t be a “good” woman who spoils men

Role model 1: Obama’s wife Michelle

Michelle goes to bed at 9:30 every night , got up at 4:30 the next day to do fitness and prepare breakfast for the family. Before Obama ran for president, she always asked him to come home on time for dinner every day from Monday to Friday. She was a strong, organized and extremely efficient housewife, and Obama described her as the backbone and stabilizer of the family. Once, Obama won a proposal in Congress and excitedly called Michelle to tell her. After hearing this, Michelle said calmly: There are mice in the house. You can buy a mousetrap when you get off work.

After Obama ran for election, many people regarded him as a hero, but Michelle said that he was not hygienic and never knew how to put away his socks. However, Michelle's "self-inflicted family scandal" helped her husband gain popularity because people needed to know that the future president also had shortcomings. "Although you are a successful man, you are also a man." Michelle does not think that successful men should be pampered excessively.

Model 2: Ang Lee’s wife Lin Huijia

Lin Huijia raised Ang Lee for six years when he was most frustrated. However, in these six years, she did not indulge Li An to become a "boiled husband", but constantly encouraged him to move towards his goal. After Ang Lee finally succeeded, her attitude towards him did not change. She said: "When Ang Lee was not a director, I was me. After Ang Lee became a director, I am still Lin Huijia."

Once, Li An, who was already famous, went to the market with her. When the neighbor saw her, he said: "You are so lucky. Mr. is still free to buy vegetables with you." Lin Huijia said disapprovingly: "Actually, you are mistaken, it is me. Come buy groceries with him.” Until now, Li An still communicates with his wife every day, and they talk on the phone when they are separated. Lin Huijia does not know how to be gentle and comfort, but she is independent, independent, and determined. This “Strong” wife. Li An always feels at ease.

Be a "Strong" wife

1. Whether he succeeds or fails, always have the same requirements for him. You need to let him understand that men cannot be negative because of failure, let alone arrogant because of success.

2. When a man is at a low point in his career, you must spend more time communicating with him. Not to complain but to analyze the crux and encourage him to keep working hard. At the same time, you should tell him bluntly that my job is very hard, and I can't make money just by looking good, so you should share more of the housework. Of course, even if you are a "cook", I still love you very much.

3. All stay-at-home wives should let their husbands know that staying at home is not your ideal, nor is it as relaxing and happy as he imagined. You are just trying to support him and respect this unreasonable division of labor in the family. You must gain the same family status and respect as him.

4. You can be gentle, but you must not be indulgent. There is no need to worry about a man's face in everything. Only a woman who has been fierce can a man remember her gentle appearance.

5. When a man does something bad, he should point it out generously, and when a man does something good, he should also praise him generously. Be assertive but not nagging, let him feel that your words are always valuable, so that he can feel that although you are strong, you are not annoying.

6. A man must be trained. Even if he manages hundreds or even thousands of people outside, he will still be an unqualified husband or father when he comes home.

7. The division of labor in the family can never be changed. Arrange the housework he has to do every day, and at least let him take time to tell his daughter "Harry Potter" like Obama did. No matter what the situation, the housework must be shared between the two. It represents a person's responsibility for the family. responsibility.

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