Before getting married, both men and women should go to the hospital to receive sexual health inquiries to find out whether they have any diseases and whether they have healthy sexual psychology. In view of the fact that some contents cannot be ascertained in the hospital in the short term, and there are very few such consulting agencies in China, lovers must learn some sexual knowledge on their own during the relationship, pay more attention to the other party, and both parties should also be honest with each other.

Everyone’s sexual desire intensity is different. If a person with a strong sexual desire chooses a person with a low sexual desire, it will be difficult to have a harmonious sexual life after marriage. How to learn about the other party's situation? The only way is for both parties to truly tell each other their situation. The intensity of sexual desire is divided into two levels: the first level is the degree of physical sexual strength.

After a large number of investigations, American sexologist Kinsey found that the earlier puberty (based on the first menstrual nocturnal emission) begins, the stronger a person’s lifelong sexual ability will be, as shown by high frequency of sexual life and continuous sexual intercourse. Have lots of sex. This finding applies to 85% of people. Male sexual ability is at its strongest between the ages of 18 and 25, and then gradually and irreversibly declines, by about half every 10 years. Women's sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 35 and 45, and then begins to decline, but the rate of decline is slower than that of men of the same age.

A person’s sexual psychology is also a reflection of sexual desire. Men and women who have embraced new culture and new ideas since childhood, are willing and good at discovering fun and romance in sexual life, have strong ability to coordinate sexual life with their spouses, and have rich sexual psychology. People who live in an ignorant and closed environment often develop sexual and psychological prejudices and obstacles.

Men with low educational levels ignore the communication of sexual feelings. If a woman with a positive sexual attitude and high requirements for psychological romantic feelings marries him, she will think that he is too "rude" and "impersonal". The man may also think that she is too "slutty" and "has too many chores." On the contrary, if a sexually conservative woman marries a man with a positive sexual attitude, she will feel that the man is "destroying" her, and the man will feel that the woman is a puppet and that her sex life is boring.

The older a person is, the lower his sexual ability is. Therefore, from a sexual perspective, it is generally believed that young and middle-aged people with strong sexual desire and many sexual requirements are not suitable for marrying older people. Generally, the age difference between the two parties should not be greater than 15 years.

The sexual life of remarried elderly people is mainly to satisfy the desire for sexual contact and touch, so the sexual intercourse ability is irrelevant. However, if an individual man has a strong sexual ability, he must choose a woman whose sexual ability is similar to his own, preferably under 60 years old, because the vaginal secretion function of women over 60 years old is already relatively poor.

It is not suitable for two people who are too obese to get married, because overweight people may cause joint degeneration due to overweight, and may have difficulty choosing the right position for sexual intercourse and other inconveniences.

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