It is generally believed that the longer a man lasts in bed, the stronger his sexual ability will be, and this often becomes a reason for men to show off. This is actually a big misunderstanding: In fact, if a man always works too hard and cannot leave the battlefield for a long time, it is more likely that there is something wrong with his body. Man, stop getting hard there!

How long does a normal orgasm take?

The time from the initiation of sexual impulse to orgasm for a normal man should be 2 to 6 minutes (calculated from the time the penis is inserted into the vagina and performs piston movement). Of course , which is closely related to a man’s age, physique, emotion, living environment, etc. Younger, physically stronger men take less time to reach orgasm, while older, weaker men take longer to reach orgasm. But if your partner takes more than half an hour or even longer to "charge into battle" each time, and is so exhausted that he is out of breath and sweating profusely every time, this situation is called "delayed orgasm."

Is delayed orgasm pathological?

A man has just entered middle age, coupled with a heavy workload and family burdens, his energy and physical strength cannot reach full perfection, and he needs to spend more time awakening his "little general". This delay in orgasm caused by physiological and external factors is not a pathological manifestation. Men do not need to be disheartened when encountering this situation. Female companions need to provide considerate care in life, tender care emotionally, be less "demanding" in sex life, and control the time of each sexual intercourse. Men need to exercise self-control and be fully prepared before having sex. They don’t necessarily have to have sex every week or several times a day. They need to learn to store their sexual desire to wait for it to explode. One time is enough.

If your male partner is young and promising, has no obvious pressure or psychological discomfort, and has not been "camping" outside, but still has delayed orgasm, then he may be suffering from a certain disease. For some chronic debilitating diseases, it is necessary to find the cause and treat it.

How to judge whether there is a disease

If a young man has delayed orgasm, first check whether he has a bad habit of long-term masturbation, and then check whether the body suffers from other organic diseases. disease. Men who masturbate for a long time will not be able to achieve the stimulation requirements of orgasm during normal sexual intercourse; men who have frequent sexual intercourse will have their excitement center suppressed, making it difficult to reach orgasm due to lack of pleasure during intercourse; as for excessive penis foreskin or phimosis, sexual intercourse Sensitive points cannot be fully exposed, etc., which can lead to delayed orgasm. If it is caused by the first two reasons, you should cut off the bad habit of self-indulgence and reduce the frequency of sexual life. The latter requires going to the hospital to seek treatment from a doctor.

Attitude is the most important

Delayed orgasm will cause men and women to consume too much during sex, causing sex to lose the role of relieving stress and venting sexual desire. Its existence is indeed a bit uncomfortable. harmonious. But delayed orgasm is not a very serious problem. It is also a normal physiological phenomenon for middle-aged men. The most important thing is to adjust your mentality and not to worry about it to prevent psychological impotence. If the condition is serious, you must see a doctor, and you cannot hide it by yourself.

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