Yesterday he still reached his face to you, and was rejected soon. This morning, I saw him taking another girl, shopping until he was very happy, with no trace of injury at all. Does this mean that his feelings for you are all fake? Not necessarily. He just doesn't understand the difference between love and conquest. After losing your territory, he projects his desire to conquer to another place.

Men, especially when they are young and ignorant, often cannot maturely understand love. In their concept, "love" and "possession" are equated. The ultimate goal of "love" is to take you into his possession. Unfortunately, on the contrary, true love is blessing and freedom.

OK, here comes the question: How to distinguish a man’s love from conquest?

Don’t allow him to love you lazily

Theoretical premise is: flowers and honey Words are all means of conquest. Once you succeed, all means are suspended.

"It's not that I don't love her, I'm just too lazy to express it." A male friend explained after being complained by his girlfriend. I can understand a man's mood, but I cannot agree with the statement that "love can be lazy."

A woman’s love can make them rise to the occasion and make a sumptuous breakfast of love for their lover; it can make them attentive and remember every habit of a man and never violate it; it can also make them imaginative. Big increase, sending the most thoughtful humor to lovers when they are distressed... Let’s not give any more examples.

It’s not that men don’t know these things, it’s just that all their means of expressing love have been cut into Kuma and Nanshan. When women express love through actions, men feel disheartened because they have already received "love". At this time, women often complain: "He doesn't love me anymore." My dear, this is not a joke or a conjecture, it may be the case.

Unless a woman wants to break up, a man always feels like there is nothing to do. This is just like losing territory and having to go out with weapons and weapons.

So, if you want to be the object of his love, not just the target of conquest, then don't allow him to love you lazily. He should also have the same memory as you, remember your likes and dislikes, and spend some time doing something.

Are you afraid that your demanding demands will scare him away? Then listen to——

Do men like women who demand a lot?

American writer Sherry Argov’s work "Why" Men Love Bitches” answers this question very well. "Bad Women Are Loved", this is a translation of the book title, but in my opinion, the word "bad women" cannot accurately express the meaning of "bitches". It describes certain types of women here: they are assertive and know how to give in, they are feminist and charming, they respect each other while also knowing how to express their own needs... In short, they are not good wives in the eyes of traditional men. Mother is the dream lover in every man's fantasy.

As a radio celebrity, Argov has answered the confusion in the hearts of many women: Why are gentle and virtuous good women always unloved? Why are bad women with many demands surrounded by groups of men, vying for the first place? Satisfy their needs, even if they know she doesn't love them?

The reason is simple, when a woman makes demands, men can show off their skills. While satisfying her, the man also gets the satisfaction of a sense of accomplishment. On the contrary, the lack of desire of "good wives and mothers" deprives men of their right to enjoy a sense of accomplishment.

Will the prince fall in love with Cinderella without a glass slipper

Okay, you decide to be a "bad girl" from today on. But wait a minute, you have to know that "bad women" also have capital.

I believe you must have heard the story of "Cinderella". But why did the prince fall in love with Cinderella? He didn't fall in love with her who was unkempt and doing housework, but fell in love with her at first sight in her gorgeous clothes. Many people who have wishful thinking about fairy tales believe that the prince fell in love with Cinderella's simplicity. However, how can the princess dress and glass slippers show this simplicity? If there is no beautiful "party dress", what will the prince still do? Favored?

Men like "beautiful girls are frugal" and "simple girls are also very beautiful when dressed up", but the core word that is inseparable from both is "beautiful". So, if you want to be a "bad woman" who is loved by others, you must have a beautiful face. If you don’t want plastic surgery, then strive for a slim figure. If you can't build a good figure in a short time, then at least dress neatly and tastefully.

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