Myth 1: Alcohol makes sex more vigorous

Many men have increased sexual desire after drinking alcohol, and due to the weakened sensitivity of their organs, sex takes significantly longer than usual. Some people use this as a secret to enjoy it endlessly.

Indeed, occasionally drinking a small amount of alcohol can reduce the sexual inhibition of the cerebral cortex, partially enhance sexual desire and sexual pleasure, and also achieve the effect of relaxing muscles and activating collaterals. However, drinking too much alcohol may cause impotence in men and frigidity in women.

A series of research data conducted by scientists show that: 65% of men develop testicular atrophy due to long-term excessive drinking; 15% to 17% of men develop anti-sperm antigens and anti-testis antigens autoantigens; 17% to 38% of people suffer from impotence; 34% to 65% of people have varying degrees of sexual dysfunction; 55% of people have reduced beards. The aphrodisiac effect of wine is only immediate and short-lived, which often leads to reduced semen, impotence and other diseases in men.

Women who drink a lot of alcohol for a long time can not only cause premature ovarian failure and early menopause, but also easily lead to premature aging of the appearance and shortened life span. About 30% to 40% of alcoholic women experience difficulty in sexual arousal, 15% experience a significant reduction or even loss of the frequency and intensity of orgasms, and 1% may cause lifelong infertility. During sexual intercourse after drinking alcohol, due to the high excitement of the human nervous system and extensive congestion of the sexual organs, it will lead to excessive consumption of human energy, and the adaptability and sensitivity of sexual organ functions will gradually decrease, and even the "sexual interest" will be completely lost.

Myth 2: The more times you have, the easier it is to get pregnant

When some couples want to have a baby, they consciously increase the number of sexual intercourses, thinking that this will help them get pregnant as soon as possible, but the results are often counterproductive. Women of childbearing age release only one to two eggs per menstrual cycle. Therefore, the most fertile times each month are only 1-3 days before ovulation and 1-2 days after ovulation.

If the frequency of sexual intercourse between couples is too high, they often only have sperm but no eggs. Isn’t it true that “a clever woman cannot make a meal without rice”? If the frequency of sexual intercourse is too high, it will also lead to a reduction in semen volume and sperm density, which will make the sperm The activity rate and survival rate drop significantly, and the sperm are not fully mature, so the "stamina" to meet the egg is greatly weakened, and the chance of conception is naturally reduced.

The ideal method is to stop sexual life 3-5 days before ovulation and have intercourse the day before or on the day of ovulation to ensure that a certain amount and quality of sperm are stored for conception. Don't think that the more times you have sexual intercourse, the better your chances of getting pregnant.

Myth 3: Semen is a highly concentrated nutritional product

In ancient times, some people believed that "one drop of semen and ten drops of blood" and that male semen is a highly concentrated nutritional product. Some women have wanton sex and even swallow male semen, thinking that this can nourish and keep them healthy, but this is not the case.

Semen contains mostly carbohydrates, and its composition is basically the same as plasma. These components are similar to those of plasma, but their sources, forms and functions are different. Comparing food and semen, a bowl of milk (250 ml) contains 8 grams of protein, 10 grams of fat, and 13 grams of sugar. A bowl of soy milk (250 ml) contains 11 grams of protein, 5 grams of fat, and 29 grams of sugar. In terms of nourishing the human body, milk and soy milk are much more valuable than semen. In terms of function, semen is not a nutrient, but a substance for the reproduction of future generations.

Myth 4: The more tricks a man has, the easier it is for a woman to climax

People seem to generally accept the idea that whether a sexual life is satisfactory or not depends on what techniques the man uses. .

Appropriate sexual skills will have beneficial effects, but if you pursue specific and mechanical sexual skills too much, it will weaken the inevitable connection between sex and love, causing women to be psychologically and physically exhausted. . In our country, at least half of the wives neither need nor appreciate their husband's sexual skills. They are especially disgusted with their husbands treating themselves as some kind of "tool" or "stage" where men can blindly "use" or "perform". In order to avoid a head-on conflict of opinions, women usually choose to fake an orgasm and actively surrender to end the fight as soon as possible. In this case, the quality of sex cannot be guaranteed at all. The couple will only become increasingly estranged, indifferent and even conflicted, and there will be no climax.

Instead of focusing on sexual technique, respect your body's rhythm. Think less about what it takes to reach orgasm and more about what makes you feel good. Physical and mental relaxation will ultimately give you sexual pleasure, which is far better than following the guidance of "advanced sexual techniques" in vain.

Myth 5: If you have insomnia, have sex and sleep soundly

During sex, the release of hormones in the body can reduce people’s sensitivity to mental stress and help relieve psychological stress. The whole body is relaxed and the whole process helps to rest and sleep. During the entire sexual intercourse, men's sexual desire can be quickly stimulated, and sexual desire can quickly subside after orgasm. Therefore, some men who often worry about insomnia use this method to hypnotize. If you can get the satisfaction of your sexual life without delaying your sleep, why not do it? However, sexual life is equivalent to a moderate-intensity physical labor. If it is too frequent and the body does not get a good rest, it will inevitably affect the quality of sleep.

For women, women’s sexual desire requires a longer activation process and a slower subsidence process (studies have found that it only takes 3 minutes for men to achieve the height of pleasure that women take 15 minutes to achieve) , therefore, it is more difficult for women to achieve perfection in sex than for men. When a person is in a period of strong sexual desire and cannot fully vent it for a long time, the nervous system will be in a highly excited state, anxious and irritable, Then insomnia came one after another. Using this method too much will aggravate the occurrence of insomnia.