I often hear married people discussing their married life say that there is always one person in the couple who is not "in the mood", so they feel very disappointed. Recently, some experts have pointed out that there are "sexual rhythm days" between men and women. If you can accurately feel the "sexual pulse" of your lover, you can promote the harmonious life and emotions of the couple.

[Distress] There is little harmony between husband and wife

Last week, at a college reunion, several married girls in the same dormitory talked about private conversations between husband and wife. Xiao Yang and his lover have always been the most loving couple in the eyes of his classmates. But when Xiao Yang talked about his married life, he was filled with bitterness. Xiao Yang said that in terms of married life, the two of them never want to go to the same place. Sometimes she has "sexual" interest, but her lover cannot arouse her. Sometimes her lover makes requests and expresses his love frequently, but she doesn't feel it and just copes with it, which makes the two of them feel bad.

The reporter learned that many couples have embarrassing things similar to Xiao Yang's, and some couples even "parted ways" because of this.

[Research] There is a "sexual rhythm" cycle between men and women

"Public Health" once published a news saying that American scholars have discovered another major rhythm that is crucial to humans. , that is, sexual rhythm.

Studies believe that men’s sexual rhythm has a cycle of 15 days, while women’s sexual rhythm has a cycle of 27 days. The last day of each sexual rhythm cycle is "sexual rhythm day", also known as orgasm day. The day in the middle of each cycle is the low tide day. Sexual rhythm, like other biological rhythms, begins activity from the day a person is born and continues regularly throughout life.

[Analysis] Female sexual desire is affected by the ovulation period

On issues related to the "sexual rhythm days" of men and women, the reporter consulted relevant experts.

Sun Yingpu, director of the Reproductive Medicine Center of the First Affiliated Hospital of Zhengzhou University, said that there is currently no relevant explanation for the sexual rhythm day, and there is no clear medical statement.

However, Sun Yingpu pointed out that there is indeed a big gap in the sexual desire requirements and performance between men and women. For example, women have menstrual cycles, which is the so-called ovulation period, and women’s sexual desire will be affected by the ovulation period.

Sun Yingpu said that women’s ovulation period is relatively long, and there may be only 1 to 2 days in a month when they have a strong need for sex. At other times, women will be in a state of frigidity and passiveness. If they encounter menstruation again, Affected by factors such as age and traditional concepts, many women are easily ignored even if they have "needs".

[Explanation] Male sexual desire is related to androgens

Wan Shaoxue, director of the Chinese Sexology Society and chief physician of the Andrology Department of Henan Shuguang Hospital, said that in traditional sexual concepts, many people believe that Only women have sexual desire cycles, but men also have certain cyclical sexual desires.

Wan Shaoxue said that as age increases, the various functions of the male body decline compared to those in youth, and the endocrine system gradually stabilizes, especially androgen secretion no longer maintains at a high level. , will show a certain degree of volatility, so the cycle of sexual desire will gradually appear. When men secrete more androgen, they have sexual desire. When the amount of male hormone secretion is low, the sexual desire is relatively indifferent, or even less interesting.

Wan Shaoxue pointed out that usually, men’s androgen levels in the morning are generally higher than in the evening, but for some men, the androgen levels in their bodies sometimes fluctuate due to the influence of their wives’ menstrual cycles.

[Suggestion] Find out your lover's "sexual pulse"

Song Jin'e, a member of the Henan Psychological Association and a national second-level psychological counselor, said that the sexual life between couples will change with the emotions of both parties. It varies depending on factors such as good or bad, sexual desire, physical condition, environmental conditions and other factors. If one party fails to receive caress from the other party when requested, or is even indifferent or rejected by the other party, then it will leave hard-to-heal wounds deep in the soul and even create hatred for the other party. On the contrary, if one party is having a sexual low point, no matter how proactive the other party is, it will be difficult to arouse their sexual interest, and they will reluctantly engage in it, and they will end up unhappy.

Song Jin'e reminded that a harmonious sex life is the foundation of a happy marriage. Husband and wife must learn to be considerate of each other. No matter which party makes the request, they should not adopt a "coping" attitude and get used to applying the adjustment mechanism. Find the right balance between the other person's needs and satisfaction.

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