In a woman's perspective, men are strong, they are dignified, not afraid of challenges, and are the backbone of the family. However, in fact, everyone has weaknesses. Society and culture have given men a lot of responsibilities. Obligations, requirements and ideals, no matter how strong a man is, there will be times when he is weak or silent. Men like to hide their fragility deep in their hearts. At this time, as a wife, she must be considerate of her husband in a timely manner so that she can live in harmony for a long time. It’s not difficult to guess a man’s thoughts. Let’s take a look at four truths that women need to understand about men.

1. Suppressed emotions are often relieved through sex

Sex, for men, is sometimes a way to vent their emotions. Men are human beings too, and they also have many human weaknesses, such as fear, disappointment, isolation and helplessness, etc. When the accumulation reaches a certain level, men will want to vent it through physical contact, so they often solve their emotional problems through sex. At this time, if the wife wants more tenderness, she will only be disappointed. This is because although the husband has been physically vented, his inner tension and helplessness have not actually been eliminated. So at this time, if the wife cannot feel her husband's love, she will feel insulted and feel that she is just a tool for her husband to vent his anger. Sex is an effective way for them to regain confidence and feel relief.

2. Men like confident women

Some women think that their husbands don't care enough about them. Even if they care about themselves, they just talk casually and don't really care about them. In fact, as a wife, you should usually have a little understanding of your husband's interests and hobbies, instead of just being obedient and accepting what your husband says. Although this will help enhance the husband's self-confidence and make him feel that he is the "head of the family." But women often overlook an obvious fact. Men like women who have similar qualities to them. Most men prefer women with strong self-confidence, which will attract men more. Therefore, wives should pay attention to their own behavior and cultivate their own independent character.

3. Men don’t want to be treated like children

After some women get married, they like to treat their husbands like their children. Not only does he take good care of his daily life and diet, but he also goes as far as to set the time for him to go home. This is not conducive to the lasting development of marriage. Why do you say this? In fact, everything must be done within a certain limit. Even if both parties need to take care of each other in marriage, they cannot take care beyond the limit. After all, both men and women are independent individuals. Especially men, who are working hard for the family business outside, and what they really want is more than meticulous care. They hope that they and their wives are on the same level. Therefore, the wife should regard her husband as a capable and trustworthy friend, which will make the husband feel that his original choice was correct.

4. A man likes his wife who shares his bed with him

As for the issue of sex, the attitudes of Chinese people and Westerners are actually very different. Westerners enjoy sex very much, and they often try a variety of ways. The Chinese people have a very reserved attitude towards sex. Men prefer novel methods, while women prefer warm methods. So sometimes there will be conflicts between husband and wife. The wife will feel that the husband only cares about his own pleasure and does not care about the woman's feelings. But the husband may also feel that his wife's interest is only in romance and not in seeking ultimate happiness. If such a situation occurs, the wife can actually communicate with her husband and change each other's roles to solve the problem. The wife can understand her husband's thoughts. In fact, it is because he loves you very much and wants to reach the peak of happiness with you.

Actually, as a wife, you should also feel that your husband is different from usual. So when you feel that your husband is feeling uneasy or nervous, you should stay with them and find ways to share it with him and convey your love to him. In this way, he will feel that he has someone to rely on, and he will tell you all his uneasiness and other negative emotions. After something like this, you will find that the relationship between the two of you is closer, and the sex life that follows will be more unforgettable.