Do you know the top five reasons why women cheat?
Cheating generally refers to moral and ethical aspects and is an immoral behavior. Nowadays, it is not uncommon for women to cheat, and they are even very arrogant. So, what are the reasons why women cheat?
Modern men rarely take responsibility for sex outside marriage, because both parties just get what they need. As soon as they turn around, everyone is in the clear. Men have become indifferent, women have become unpretentious, and between adult men and women, sex and love should be separated as much as possible.
Although this is true, people are still far more tolerant of married men than of married women. Men's cheating can be explained as relieving work pressure, playing for fun, unspoken rules in shopping malls, men's desire to conquer, etc. It seems that it is a last resort; then what are the reasons for women to cheat?
But it turns out that married women are increasingly enjoying the pleasures of life brought about by infidelity (either emotionally or physically). So why do women cheat?
1. Make up for the emptiness of life and seek psychological and physical compensation
This is probably the reason why married women are most likely to cheat.
For example, if the marriage is not happy enough, the husband is not considerate, the husband cannot accompany her often, the husband does not understand the style, the husband is busy with work and neglects the family, etc., the woman is depressed and unable to escape, so she hopes to get emotional comfort outside the marriage, which is seeking psychological compensation; For example, most married women live in a small space. Apart from their family and children, they completely lose themselves.
After taking care of the family, when facing oneself, one often feels empty inside, confused about one's disappearing youth, and frightened; for example, women with successful careers face the boundless emptiness and loneliness of life after work; for example, The husband is in poor health and cannot satisfy the woman physiologically, or the husband's caressing method is too rough and too weak, and the woman cannot get the way she wants, and there is a lack of communication between husband and wife, etc.
Now that the Internet has developed, women are no longer the majority in the household, and they have more and more opportunities to contact the outside world. In addition, there are many men on the Internet who are eyeing them eagerly, and many of them are outstanding and like-minded people. After a few exchanges, you can quickly cheat, and online On some virtual home websites, more women buy houses for one night than men. This shows how convenient the Internet has been for women to make friends.
This quick way to comfort the mind and body is the most common way for women... With extramarital men filling their lives, women will slowly cherish their existing years, become graceful and graceful, and gain new life in the emotional world. with self.
There are playful ways of a smart woman and a stupid woman. Smart women just use this kind of compensation as an adjustment. After some women in online virtual families buy a house, they can quickly label it to accept it, transfer it quickly, and eliminate it quickly. Therefore, most women on the Internet now only accept ONS, which is to achieve the goal. It doesn’t hurt the family; in fact, just imitate the greed of men. All men hope that the colorful flags are flying outside and the red flags at home remain.
2. Women also want to seek the novelty of marriage
Marriage is not the grave of love, but the place where passion dissipates.
In marriages lasting more than three to five years, passion will fade to a greater or lesser extent.
But passion fades only when facing a specific object (her husband). It does not mean that women themselves have no passion. Facing an increasingly dull marriage, women will also have the idea of chasing novelty, the desire to face throbbing again, and the need to experience passionate sex.
But generally speaking, many women will suppress their true desires and use their families and children to distract their attention, gradually believing that such a plain life is the real life.
But a woman who understands life and pursues the quality of life will always be ready to act, she will fantasize, she will cheat, she will look for sources of stimulation outside marriage, and she will make her life shine with a different kind of brilliance. Therefore, for the sake of novelty, women will cheat.
3. Satisfy the desire to conquer
Like men, married women will also regard the number of men they possess as an indicator of conquest to measure their charm and ability. This type of woman is highly aggressive and greedy. She regards getting a man as occupying a mountain. She will constantly cross such mountains in her life and experience the sense of victory and satisfaction at the moment when she stands on the top of the mountain. A large part of this type of women in XX virtual families are like this. They will often deliberately get you hooked and become obsessed with her, then dump you coolly, and answer phone calls one after another every day.
Men are no longer the sun that women dare not look up to, nor are they so dazzling in life. Men outside marriage are sometimes indicators of charm. Conquering one adds a little more charm to a woman.
This type of woman also knows how to be affectionate, but is better at controlling men. He may look weak on the outside, but he must be very strong and determined on the inside, and will persevere... But he will often lose interest after achieving his goal and turn around and leave, giving the always strong man an extremely strong sense of frustration.
4. To seek balance within marriage
This type of woman probably lives a very helpless and low ebb life. The passive person in the family. They have gradually become numb to their husband's debauchery and constant pursuit of women, so out of inner resentment, they will also cheat, looking for a semblance of balance to anesthetize themselves.
This type of infidelity often has a tragic color, full of helplessness in life, and perhaps, a woman's deep self-blame for herself... When a woman does not have the power to compete with a man normally, she can only use a negative way - you fall and I do the same. Fall, everyone is even!
5. Pure indulgence
This is probably something someone with a strong sexual desire or extremely emotional would do. Her psychological and physical needs simply cannot be met within the marriage. So she continued to hunt for beauty, and entangled with different men, just to indulge herself and to calm her desire.
Or maybe this type of woman is not really eager to indulge, but the pressure from life is too great and there is no suitable release channel, so she vents her anger on her body - the more indulgent she is, the more she forgets reality and the easier it is.
However, women are not simple animals. They have complicated thoughts. It is possible that multiple factors combine to cause them to cheat, allowing them to enjoy life from different aspects... But in any case, now that men's cheating has been recognized, women Cheating is not something that is difficult to talk about. She just needs to be a smart woman, know what she wants and what she absolutely cannot want, and then hold on to the bottom line and enjoy life to the fullest.
I saw a woman write her signature on the XX family website before, saying, "A woman who only has one man in her life may be the ultimate happiness, or it may be the ultimate tragedy, and I can't achieve ultimate happiness, so I can't do it in my life." There is only one man”.
The above is a detailed introduction to the five major reasons why women are crazy and women cheat. I hope it will be helpful to you to further understand the psychology of gender. Therefore, in daily life, the majority of female friends must keep themselves clean, avoid cheating, actively maintain the health of both sexes, and strive for harmonious sex.