As the saying goes, "Thirty is like a wolf, and forty is like a tiger." This is very appropriate for a woman's sexual age.

A woman’s sexual desire peaks only when she is thirty or forty years old. At this time, they always hope to relive the close bond they had during their honeymoon, so that the love between husband and wife can be repeated again and again. But the reality is not as they wish. Children, family, career, etc. are all preventing them from reliving their dreams.

However, recent research by sexologists has brought good news to women. They believe that women's sexual desire will increase again between the ages of 40 and 50, which can allow them to enter a "second honeymoon."

In this regard, Dr. Yang Dazhong from the Department of Sexual Medicine of Tsinghua University Yuquan Hospital said that the term "second honeymoon" does exist, but women should not expect too much from it and should treat it more rationally. .

The honeymoon mainly comes from psychology

“Women actually have the strongest sexual desire around the age of 35.” Yang Dazhong said, “But women in this period are either busy with career development or busy with having children. When raising children, they often do not have enough time and energy to enjoy a 'conjugal life' with their husbands. "

"Around the age of 50, women's living conditions will change. "For example, the burden on the family is reduced. Children can basically be independent and no longer need to worry about their parents; after years of getting along with each other, the relationship between husband and wife has become more harmonious and loving; their careers have entered a stable period... "Therefore, compared with those in their thirties and forties, women at this stage have a better mentality. You can enjoy sex more. Therefore, there is the saying of 'second honeymoon'."

There are also some opinions that the key to determining female sexual desire is the male hormone testosterone, and women aged 40-50 years old. Testosterone levels will rise and therefore your libido will be stronger. Is this statement true? Yang Dazhong said that this is not the main factor. "The main reason is psychological."

The famous American women's magazine "Red Book" once published an article stating that a single increase in testosterone levels cannot bring women a strong sexual desire, and it is not Every woman aged 40-50 will experience rising testosterone levels.

Don’t expect too much from your “second honeymoon”

"However, women should not have too high expectations for the 'second honeymoon'. After all, it is much worse than the real honeymoon." Yang Dazhong reminded, "Because the sexual ability of both husband and wife has declined at this time. ”

According to reports, men’s sexual desire and sexual ability will gradually decline after the age of 30, and the decline will be more obvious when they are 40-50 years old; women will also experience decline in sexual organ function and vaginal secretion. The substance is not enough to cause vaginal dryness and other phenomena. These will affect the quality of sexual life.

Mutual understanding is the key

So, how to welcome and face the "second honeymoon"? Yang Dazhong said that the most important thing is the mutual understanding between the husband and wife.

The wife must understand her husband and understand that his husband is no longer as "strong and powerful" as he was when he was young. "If you always blame your husband, it will increase his psychological burden." At the same time, the husband should also understand his wife and don't blame her for rushing. After all, everyone wants to enjoy a happy sex life.

“On the basis of mutual understanding, some methods can be used to improve the quality of sexual life.” For example, anti-ED drugs, dietary supplements, exercise, etc. In addition, it is also important to adjust sexual lifestyle. The following methods are available for reference:

First, men can eat some honey and pumpkin seeds appropriately to improve sexual performance; both parties can eat more chocolate to improve sexual pleasure.

Second, women can use vaginal lubricants to reduce friction and pain during sex.

${FDPageBreak}Third, both parties should fully kiss and caress before sex to lay the foundation for reaching orgasm.

A woman’s sexual desire is related to her age. Youth may not be passionate and unrestrained, but when you are over 60, your sex life will be boring? Relevant experts collected some information and conducted research on this topic from 15 to 30 years old, and from 30 to 60 years old.

Before 15 years old: strange and shy

Girls have a strange and shy attitude towards sex. They may be open in speech, but they hide their girlish feelings. Maybe she talks teasingly to her boyfriend just because she wants him to be gentler; she is waiting for true love and rarely engages in promiscuity.

15 to 20 years old: Start exploring

Start to explore sex and have high requirements for your appearance. This is when many people go on a diet for the first time to lose weight. Although they gradually exude feminine charm, it is easy for men to be fascinated. The emphasis is on passion, and they further believe that without love, there will be no fun in sex. I would rather maintain a very friendly relationship with my boyfriend than give away my virginity randomly.

20 to 30 years old: tired and running for life

This is the golden period for women to find a partner, and it is also the stage when they have the most friends of the opposite sex in their lives. Unfortunately, this is not a period of good sex life. It is a period of struggle in career. After work, I escape home and can no longer enjoy the pleasure of boudoir.

30 to 40 years old: the golden period

It is the golden time for women in sexual matters. With more experience, they also have new and special interests; they are particularly aware of the passage of time and cherish every happy time; they have strong self-confidence.

40 to 50 years old: Everyone goes to extremes

This is a quite complicated age group. Some women begin to lose interest in sex at this time, and this is usually after many years of marriage. An old married couple. As for women who are still free, they no longer insist on any commitment from men. They put happiness first. With rich experience, they can better grasp the happiness brought by sex.

50 to 60 years old: Occasionally excellent works

Many people think that women’s sexual needs at this time have calmed down. In fact, some of them have requirements for this. The frequency of sexual relations will be different from before, and they will enjoy it slowly. For example, young people like to eat fast food, while older people appreciate French cuisine that lasts for three hours.

Over 60 years old: Extraordinary sensibility

This group of elders in society can still be beautiful. Many people say that women of this age can express extraordinary sensibility.

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