When one party between a couple has a sexual request, they are generally unwilling and do not need to express it in words. Sex life requires an atmosphere, and only with a good atmosphere can one become emotional. If you shout it outright and dance at the same time, it will immediately destroy the atmosphere and make people feel that this kind of sex is simply a superposition of flesh.

It is wise and civilized for couples not to express sexual requirements directly. But a question arises: if you don’t tell, how will the other party know? Especially for those couples who don't know each other well or have slow feelings, how should they solve this problem? Many foreign scholars are studying "body language". This science believes that people can use expressions, movements, postures, etc. to express very rich meanings. Cue is a silent body language. But for hints to play the role of language, you must first make the other party understand that you have given a hint, but the other party does not know its exact meaning at all, which is "ineffective communication". For example, a husband said to his wife happily after taking a bath: "It was so comfortable today!" In fact, he meant something. The wife didn't hear what was going on and fell asleep alone early in the night, leaving the husband sulky. In fact, after the husband failed to take the hint, why not give him a more concise hint?

To learn to send hints, you must also strive to be natural and avoid being blunt. Blunt hints are usually provocative physical contact, such as a sudden kiss, a pat on the cheek, etc. The meaning of such hints is clear at a glance, and it is not much different from saying it directly. If it happens when the other person is in a bad mood, it can easily arouse the other person's resentment. Giving hints bluntly and mechanically is one of the mistakes husbands often make. Dr. Lehman, an American psychotherapy expert, gave this example: "I have a female patient. Her husband not only treats physical contact as a patent for sexual behavior, but also does it very mechanically. Every Wednesday or Thursday night, at about 10 o'clock Around 10 minutes, he began to pat and touch her, and then went to bed together. He hardly touched her at other times and did not touch her in other ways."

The hint should be natural, often with a sudden inspiration. Or it is produced by random changes, and most of them take advantage of the environment. 38-year-old Steven and his wife went out of town together, and passed by the city where they studied, where their first love began. During the day, they visited their alma mater. In the evening, they talked enthusiastically about their study life back then. When talking about some interesting little things in love, Steven found that his wife's eyes flashed with tenderness, and he began to touch her gently and kiss her passionately... Such a hint naturally made the two of them happy. Spent a blissful and ecstatic night.

Learning to hint does not mean not speaking, but rather not speaking directly. It is a common phenomenon between husband and wife to use language to imply sexual requirements. One of the most widely used sentences is: "Let's sleep!" Of course, saying this does not always imply sexual requirements. People still need to sleep. In order to prevent the other party from misunderstanding, this sentence must be accompanied by a change in expression, or at least a change in tone. Otherwise, when you are prepared, the other party will really fall asleep.

In order to make the sex life of couples interesting, the hints of sexual requirements should also change frequently. Between couples who have been married for many years, fixed hints have often been formed. Over time, the original hints lose their original excitement of being naked and half-covered, and become boring. For example, there is a wife who, whenever she asks her husband to change his underwear, is implying that she has such requirements. At the beginning, her husband thought it was quite interesting. Later, her husband found it troublesome and deliberately ignored her, so the wife had to give up this hint method.

Learning hints is absolutely beneficial to strengthening the emotional connection between husband and wife. On weekend nights, placing a bouquet of flowers or other gifts on your wife's bedside would be both romantic and warm. In addition, many husbands take the initiative to help their wives with housework, which is often a simple and natural hint.

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