Do you and your partner communicate?
1. Sometimes, when I need attention most, my partner ignores me.
2. My partner usually doesn’t know how I feel.
3. It is often difficult to have a serious discussion with my partner.
4. If I don’t get my partner’s attention, I will go crazy.
5. I find that I often lose my temper with my partner.
6. If my partner disagrees with me on certain issues, I will be very angry.
7. It is difficult for me to get my partner to listen to me.
8. It is difficult for me to get my partner to open up to me.
9. It is difficult for me to get my partner to confide in me.
Calculation:
Based on the above questions, please choose: A. Strongly disagree; B. Disagree; C. Unsure; D. Agree; E. Strongly agree
Score: Strongly disagree, 0 points; Disagree, 1 point; Unsure, 2 points; Agree, 3 points; Strongly agree, 4 points.
Questions 1-3: A score of less than 8 points indicates that you occupy a dominant position in the marriage and you clearly know what you want from your partner. If you score more than 8 points, it means that you are so reticent in your marriage that your partner wants to become a "thought reader" to know what you are thinking.
Questions 4-6: If you score less than 8 points, your expression is just right. Your marriage can benefit from effective communication with each other, and your partner can easily know what you are thinking and needing. If the score is higher than 8, it means that you are showing anger when communicating with your partner, which will push your partner further and further away.
Questions 7-9: If the score is lower than 8 points, it means that you are full of confidence in your marriage relationship. If the score is higher than 8, it means you don't trust each other and you need to work harder to truly win his/her heart. Perhaps listening carefully to what others have to say is more effective than asking the other person to listen to your bitterness.
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