Do you also have "Princess Disease"?
Princess disease is a latent factor hidden in the consciousness of all women. Princess disease is not limited to young women, middle-aged and older women also have princess tendencies. All women hope to be rescued by the handsome and intelligent prince on the high tower and escape from the current oppressive life...
Princess disease is actually a symptom of Peter Pan syndrome (boys who don't want to grow up) The female version, they are women who have excessive self-confidence and demand to be treated like a princess on any occasion. They have obvious narcissistic tendencies, young mental age, unbalanced self-evaluation, overly inflated self-role, or more than Realistically magnifying one's own advantages, being self-centered, having weak willpower and tolerance, often blaming external problems when encountering problems, often choosing to avoid complaining when encountering difficulties, and expecting others to pay for one's mistakes. There are three typical princess diseases:
The controlling princess has strong abilities and advantages in certain aspects. She is arrogant and arrogant, acts a bit coquettishly, does not consider the feelings of others, likes to control and influence the people around her, becomes the focus of attention, and will get angry if she does not get what she wants. Temperament - Easily become a deviant.
The dependent princess has relatively weak abilities and lacks the ability to take care of herself. She often relies on others for important decisions. She is squeamish, afraid of hardship, and has weak social adaptability--it is easy to become a naughty old person.
Trauma-type princesses lack a healthy childhood due to childhood trauma. They are self-centered in relationships, have low ability to feel others, have a masculine personality, are self-centered, have a strong desire to control and dominate, and have Strong aggression, especially easy to be emotional in the relationship between the sexes.
Mild symptoms of princess disease can be found in many women and are harmless; moderate symptoms are still within the range that men can tolerate, provided that the man is tolerant and accommodating enough; severe symptoms But it is not very popular, and it will also scare away men.
In fact, both men and women find people who pretend to be noble to be very unpleasant. We all like people who are free and easy-going, friendly, and feel relaxed when we are together. However, as time goes by, we become completely unnerved by people we feel comfortable with, treat them negligently, and easily say no when the other person wants something from us.
When you work with a man or are in love, never put down everything about yourself for the other person. Even if you put down everything about yourself and ignore him, the other person will not be very moved by it. It is you who will gradually lose the feeling of your own charm. Many women who were calm and rational at the beginning eventually devoted themselves completely to each other for their love, but it was at this time that men began to become more cold and arrogant.
I conducted some surveys among men in many large companies, and the result is: If female employees don’t pay much attention to other people’s accusations and blame, and continue to work without any complaints, then Next time any strenuous work will be done, I will ask it to be done by such female employees instead of those female employees who are a little grumpy, emotional, and a little arrogant.
Both men and women in the workplace have a certain sense of mystery. Both parties will deal with each other more carefully while maintaining etiquette. Looking around us, there is a situation where female B is not the lover of male C, but she keeps asking C to pay. It seems a bit shameless, but such women are more popular with men. Women, whether in private or official affairs, must have some princess disease to receive preferential treatment, but you have to use a good sense of proportion. If the princess disease is too serious, it will have the opposite effect. If, no matter what kind of food or drink it is, you take it and eat it as long as the other person offers it, and if the other person laughs it off without caring about your negligence, then you will be treated so casually in the future.
You must have the self-confidence to be like a princess. Although it is a good thing to care for others, don't put yourself down just because you care for others blindly. If you take care of others and turn yourself into a person who can be treated casually by others, this is very stupid behavior. You have always been very elegant when you were in love, but after you get married, you become a housewife, standing in front of the sink to eat, or eating up the family's leftovers every time. This is definitely not a glorious thing, and you must not treat it so casually. Own.
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