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Having sex with clothes on is definitely not as comfortable as being naked. Men are reluctant to wear condoms because the thin layer of rubber gets in the way. However, some men are not "unwilling" to wear them, but "can't" wear them. The so-called "can't" means that you can't have an erection after wearing a condom. As long as you don't wear a condom, you can regain your glory. Liu Yafeng, associate professor at the Reproductive Center of the First Affiliated Hospital of Sun Yat-sen University, pointed out that there are many such cases, but patients often do not think there is a problem. In fact, a physically and mentally healthy man can fully adapt to wearing a condom for sex. If the condom becomes weak after wearing it, it indicates that you may have a physical or mental illness and should be diagnosed and treated as soon as possible to avoid aggravation of the condition or even affecting the relationship between the sexes.

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Wearing or not wearing a condom should not affect erection

As the saying goes: Men are animals that think with their lower bodies. If the lower body is comfortable, the function will be easy to use. If the lower body is uncomfortable, dysfunction will occur. Because of this thought, although Xiao Li felt weak as soon as he put on a condom, he never looked into it. However, where does the discomfort come from? Why wouldn't others do this? Liu Yafeng said that healthy men should be able to have normal erections whether wearing condoms or not. If your penis becomes weak after wearing a condom, it may be abnormal and you should seek medical advice from a male specialist as soon as possible.

According to reports, erectile dysfunction after wearing a condom is likely to be affected by two factors: 1. Excessive masturbation. Masturbation is powerful, fast, and highly stimulating. It can reach climax in a short period of time and can easily lead to dependence. Men who are used to masturbating frequently before marriage may feel that sex with their wives is not exciting enough after marriage, and having sex "wearing a condom" is even less interesting. This leads to resistance, causing weakness when wearing a condom, and it is impossible to get excited at all. 2. The mood is too tense, the concentration is too concentrated, and the penis feels like being bound or strangled. Only by taking off the condom can you relax.

Liu Yafeng said that such patients often leave the responsibility of contraception to women. However, whether a woman wears an IUD or takes birth control pills, it will bring more or less side effects to the body, and the contraceptive effect is not as good as a man wearing a condom. If you don't pay attention to cleanliness before and after sex, the chance of infection between each other will be much higher. Once these "time bombs" explode, they will inevitably cause conflicts between husband and wife and disharmony in sexual life, which may aggravate a man's erectile dysfunction and make it difficult to have sex even without a condom. Unclean sex may also lead to the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.

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Reduce the frequency of masturbation and divert attention

How to achieve "hardness even when wearing a condom"? Liu Yafeng said that 80%-90% of young people masturbate. This is a normal phenomenon, but the principle of moderation must be paid attention to. Masturbating once or several times a day too frequently can easily lead to pathological changes in the genitals due to long-term congestion. It can also reduce the sensitivity of the penis and glans, which is detrimental to the sexual life of couples. It is advisable to reduce the frequency of masturbation or not masturbate, especially do not read pornographic discs or novels in the first three or four days before the couple has sex. Restraining the desire to masturbate will help increase the stimulation during the couple's sex. You can also use traditional Chinese medicine to regulate your body, or take a small dose* before intercourse to maintain erection time and excitement.

Men who feel restricted by wearing condoms can try condoms that are thinner and more breathable. At the same time, you should relax and don't keep thinking about your "little brother" being uncomfortable. The more concentrated the focus, the more likely people are to become nervous and anxious. It is recommended to use music, lights, images or other things to divert attention. During sex, the wife should not only encourage her husband to have confidence, but also give her husband a massage. Never show the slightest hint of impatience or complaining, lest the problem gets worse.

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Tips: What to do if a man doesn't like wearing condoms

★Sexy foreplay

In fact, if you act appropriately, "Wearing a condom" is an important part of wonderful foreplay.

First of all, you need to make sure the top of the condom is pointing up. If it is reversed, you need to replace it with a new one; then, gently pinch the top about 5 cm and push the condom toward him. Put it on the bottom of the condom, and at the same time give his "little brother" some gentle touches to squeeze out the air bubbles in the condom and ensure that the condom will not break easily when you have sex. In addition, you can also try to put a few drops of lubricant on his "little brother" first, and give him a light massage with both hands, so that he will be so excited that he forgets that he is preparing a "full set" of weapons.

★Let him get into the trap obediently

As we all know, a large number of men hate this little thing that does not hinder their performance. Even if they prepare in advance, if you don't remind them in time, they are likely to have "selective amnesia" and escape every time. But for you, it’s possible to “win the bid” the first time. So if you haven't planned to have children yet, then: gently tell him that you want to have no worries in bed and be able to have more fun and be more open. At the last moment, divert his attention by kissing his body, or caressing him, and let you put it on him. When he can't wait, of course he won't refuse.

With some foresight, bring a condom with you on Valentine's Day, birthdays, anniversaries, or days that have special commemorative significance for the two of you, otherwise it will be easy to "go off the gun" in the light of roses and candles. ". According to surveys, 70% of unintended pregnancies occur on such special days. Know this: It’s okay to be careful.