In fact, from a psychological point of view, this is the "unrest" hidden in a man's heart. Let's call it "cuckold phobia" in a popular way. This kind of "insecurity" is the fear of what will happen to his wife behind her back. matter. Studies have shown that women trust their husbands much more than men trust their wives. This is consistent with real life - men can confidently stay out all night drinking, playing mahjong, and coax women away with a few words, but this is often not the case for men with women.

I once saw a case in which a couple declared their marriage disbanded after three years of marriage. The reason for divorce was that the husband had extreme distrust of his wife. Whenever his wife went out, the husband would check her underwear. If If you find that there is a lot of secretion, you need to get to the bottom of it and pursue it vigorously. After living in an atmosphere of suspicion and tension for a long time, the string of marriage was finally broken before the nerves of the person were broken.

Sexual behavior is exclusive psychology

Having sexual intercourse will inevitably leave a large amount of secretions on the underwear. This husband's "virginity testing method" can be described as straightforward, but he forgot that the increase in female lower body secretions comes from many aspects, in addition to sexual intercourse. Activities (including sexual imagination), gynecological diseases, strenuous physical exercise, etc., "discharge" became a "stand-in" for his distrustful mentality, forming a psychological cycle in which "discharge" = "cheating". There is also a typical "wife-suspicious" behavior - showing strong disgust towards the men around the wife, colleagues, classmates, friends and even relatives, as long as they are men, they get along with each other more frequently, especially if the wife mentions them. If there are too many, he will be put on the "blacklist". Carrying this "blacklist", he will accumulate into "cuckold phobia" and spend his time studying and ranking the frequency, place and time of his wife's contact with these "suspicious objects". , has been in a state of high alertness and vigilance for a long time, always feeling that "there is something going on", but always unable to grasp the handle.

The extension of virginity complex

There are many reasons for this feeling of distrust, but in summary, there are only a few types: First, due to the "virgin complex", the wife "suspects of being inappropriate" when getting married, or it is very clear that he is not her first lover ; The second is a remarried couple, both of whom have a history of marriage, and have varying degrees of "re-love experience"; the third is an inferiority complex, which is usually caused by the woman being outgoing and having a "more prosperous career" than the man. "Many, there is the phenomenon of women being strong and men being weak; the fourth is hearsay, being troubled by special examples around me. I heard that a certain woman had such an experience, and she was always wary of her own people - here, I say, These are unhealthy attitudes.

As the saying goes, "A heart ailment needs a heart-warming doctor" and "To untie a bell, it needs a person to tie the bell." Trust comes from the purity of the feelings of both parties, and also depends on the "calmness" of the individual's heart. There is an "illusion-like" inference. You can refer to it - you say it exists, it exists, you say it doesn’t exist without it, so why not infer that it means nothing?

Animal trainers in zoos can still reach a tacit understanding of getting along with beasts, so why can’t they have more trust with their legal spouses?

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