Premarital sex

Times are changing, and so are many concepts. These changing concepts have both a progressive side and a backward side. Since the "sexual liberation" movement, people's views on sex have undergone great changes. It has promoted the development of social civilization, but it has also brought about many social problems. According to statistics: One million teenage girls in the United States become pregnant every year out of wedlock; 57% of male middle school students and 46% of female middle school students in Sweden have had sexual intercourse experience. Someone once conducted a survey on sexual attitudes among college students in Taiwan, my country, and found that about 20% of college students had a history of sexual intercourse. Although this number is worrying, compared with foreign countries, my country's feudal ideology has played a certain role in preventing premarital sex.

From the perspective of doctors, they have a negative attitude towards premarital sexual intercourse because the problems it brings are often beyond the tolerance of young people. Whether it is physiologically or psychologically; whether it is the effect of sexual feelings at the time or the impact on post-marital sex life, premarital intercourse has adverse effects.

However, the reality is unavoidable. Premarital sex has become more and more accepted by people, and many people turn a blind eye to it. A few decades ago, public opinion could drive a woman to a dead end if she got pregnant out of wedlock. Nowadays, it is common to see pregnant women holding weddings with a pregnant belly. Is this social progress or social regression?

However, one thing is certain, that is, as long as it is consensual premarital sexual intercourse, it is by no means treason (unless prostitution and incest and other gangster behaviors), it is a normal physiological and psychological reflection, and a natural attribute The inevitable result of not stopping it well. However, premarital sexual intercourse is illegal cohabitation after all, and it violates traditional moral concepts. Although some old moral concepts are not correct, it has a positive significance in stopping premarital sex. However, the suppression of sex by feudal thought is inhumane. They blatantly deny sexual desire. The so-called "starving to death is a small matter, but being disobedient is a big matter", ruthlessly depriving many men and women of the joy they could enjoy. As Mr. Lu Xun said: " It just makes the bad people more hypocritical and the good people suffer more pain for no reason. "And this ghost is still lingering beside our bed.

However, the "sexual liberal" faction exaggerates the rationality and benefits of premarital sex and even advocates "trial marriage." These extreme views are obviously wrong. Their results can only bring about a series of social problems such as abortion, illegitimate children, and sexual crimes. They are extremely irresponsible for love, marriage, and society, and are a low-level, animalistic behavior. Carnalism. Some people get married on the orders of their unborn children rather than out of love. As a result, what awaits them is tragedy after marriage.

The idea that "the relationship is basically confirmed anyway, so just "get it done first"" is extremely dangerous. Not to mention the physical and psychological harm that premarital sex will cause to both men and women, in terms of sexual morality alone The dual standards of men and women make women the key victims of premarital sexual intercourse, and men should not take this step. It seems that people can tolerate a man having sex with multiple women, but cannot allow women to have deviant behavior. This is a manifestation of inequality between men and women, which is extremely unfair. To eliminate this unfair phenomenon, we do not mean to ask women to be as indulgent as men, but to advocate that men and women should have equal rights in sexual behavior, social interaction, etc. As a woman, you need to respect yourself, love yourself, and prevent premarital sexual intercourse, because in the end, the most unlucky person is the woman herself.