When a man comes early, a woman feels better

Men and women are a contradictory unity. No matter how iron-clad a tough guy is, he can still be chivalrous and tender, and no matter how weak a woman is, she can be steadfast and unyielding. God gave men a stalwart body and women a tenderness like water. However, although men and women are inseparable from each other, they are always secretly competing with each other. Even in sex, they sometimes hope to differentiate themselves.

Male sexual performance lasts longer

From male nocturnal emissions and female masturbation in adolescence to later "matching" sexual behaviors between the sexes, they are all sexual experiences in life. Through sexual experience, we gradually understand our own sexual ability and learn to control it.

So whose sexual experience started earlier? Professor Ma Xiaonian, chairman of the Sexual Medicine Professional Committee of the Chinese Sexology Society and standing committee member of the Andrology Branch of the Chinese Medical Association, told the "Life Times" reporter that in terms of average age, it is generally believed that men's sexual experience begins earlier. For example, a survey in the United States shows that the age at which men have sexual intercourse for the first time is about 16 years old. "The situation is different in different countries, but the gap between the sexes will not be too big."

But when it comes to the end, men are obviously later than women. Some men can still enjoy sex when they are in their seventies or eighties. Once many women undergo menopause (around the age of 45), the "door" to sexual life is closed. There are physiological reasons for this, such as reduced estrogen secretion in women, vaginal dryness and atrophy, and difficulty in sexual life; there are also conceptual influences, such as the belief that you should not have sex when you are older; some people also have to take into account the opinions of their children.

Ma Xiaonian emphasized that even the elderly should not give up their sex life easily. The problem of vaginal dryness in women can be solved by using lubricants. "All we need to do is to change our mindset and learn to use lubricants. In addition, even without actual sexual intercourse, just hugging, kissing, and caressing can also give the old man It brings pleasure to the wife, thereby improving physical and mental health and improving the quality of life. "

Ma Xiaonian said that in recent years, through publicity, the attitude of the elderly towards sex has changed. "Some radio programs with related content also have many middle-aged and elderly listeners."

Women actually have stronger sexual abilities

Although men have the upper hand in terms of "sex duration", The Creator is fair. Ma Xiaonian said that women's actual ability to achieve orgasm during sex is much stronger than men.

After a man experiences an orgasm, he must go through a refractory period before he can achieve another erection. But women don’t have this restriction. “If they want, they can have orgasm once, twice, or even ten times.”

But this advantage of women has been suppressed in real life, so that many Women also fail to experience multiple orgasms throughout their lives.

Ma Xiaonian believes that whether women have correct and positive concepts about sex life and orgasm, whether men "care" enough for each other during sex, and whether the couple fully communicates and has a harmonious relationship will all affect Women's experiences of real-life sex.

In addition, the differences between men and women in sexual abilities also include: men’s sensitive areas are mainly in the penis, while women have much more sensitive areas; men’s sexual response is like a “light bulb”, coming and going quickly. It's also fast; women are like "irons", they heat up slowly and cool down slowly.

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