A harmonious relationship between husband and wife does not mean how much power you give to each other, nor does it mean how much money or houses you have to prove happiness. The foundation of marriage is emotion, which requires mutual tolerance, understanding, and consideration. At the same time, some details in marriage must also be grasped in place.

Protect your secret

Everyone has their own little secret, private encrypted space, so don’t be like a child and tell your lover everything, let alone answer whatever your lover asks without any reservations. Women should learn to have their own privacy. This is not being dishonest to your lover, but a way of being yourself. Men are the kind of people who don’t cherish what they get, so you should have a little privacy or refuse the man’s questions. What makes a man more interested in you is not treating you like you are his prize.

Business about your own business

Men don’t like their wives to be tired of him all day long. They always use the excuse of being busy at work to teach their partners not to check in, not to disturb his work, not to make N calls a day to express their feelings, etc. Therefore, women must also learn to be busy. , even if you have done nothing, you should show that you are busy and occasionally refuse your lover's "interference", because this way of communication is the most direct and effective in the eyes of men.

You can have jealousy but not too much

When men see a woman who is more beautiful than their partner, they usually can't help but become interested. If as a wife, you are jealous at this time, you are wrong. Women must learn to prove to men that there are men who are better than their husbands and covet them. A man's occasional jealousy of his wife can promote a harmonious relationship between husband and wife.

Learn to proactively court love

The thoughts of ancient women were basically those of three obediences and four virtues, but in modern times, new women's thoughts are more open. Modern couples don't want teenagers in love to be shy and cry and sulk when they don't get their way. After going through the baptism of marriage, old couples tend to express their feelings with a simple look or an ambiguous word. If they are happy, they will stay together. If they are unhappy, they will separate and they will still be friends.

Marriage teaching: eight courses couples must learn

Course 1: Learn to respect

Respect him whether you love him or not. Of course, provided he respects you. A marriage without dignity cannot be happy.

Course 2: Learn to forget independence

Don’t resign easily. Keep some private money for emergencies. This world is very realistic. We can leave anyone, the only thing is that we cannot leave money.

Course 3: Learn to communicate

Communication is not nagging, this scale is difficult to master. But it’s better than silence between husband and wife. Silence can be compromise or contempt. But it is more of a weapon that can easily destroy your relationship. Unless you have the courage to face a "cold war" marriage. Otherwise, don’t skimp on language.

Course 4: Learn to stay beautiful

Married life is like a file, it can easily ruin your appearance silently. Don't expect anyone to be moved by this. Protect yourself carefully and you will feel safer.

Course 5: Learn to take responsibility

Marriage condenses the whole world into two people. You are no longer a single nobleman who even feeds the dogs when you are full. You should assume your own responsibilities at home.

Course 6: Learn to be tolerant

Many times, it is not the "big things" that violate principles that destroy a marriage. Often some unnoticed details are more lethal. It might just be a habit, an attitude. Over time, the marriage was consumed by hatred and disputes.

It's funny, the eternal vows made before marriage sometimes can't beat a pair of smelly socks in the corner. But that's the truth. So learn to be tolerant. You must know that living with a person not only means that you have to enjoy his advantages, but more importantly, you have to tolerate his shortcomings and tolerate his past.

Course 7: Learn to trust

Sometimes, trust is just about closing one eye. For eternity, we have no choice.

Course 8: Learn to "amnesia"

No matter how unforgettable and heartbreaking the love you had with others before marriage was, it was already a dream and will never become a reality. So that you can live happily, forget it.