In the university town on the evening of the 8th, college students who were caught between the avant-garde and the conservative, between repression and indulgence, debated issues such as premarital sex, cohabitation, sexual repression, and chastity. On the afternoon of the 8th, in the first special lecture on "Discussing with parents of middle school students about their children's views on sex, love, and life", Duan Jianhua, deputy director of the Guangzhou Municipal Family Planning Bureau, expressed his opinion: "Parents should personally put 'condoms' in 12~ In the schoolbag of a 15-year-old child”, which aroused heated discussion among parents attending the meeting. 58.8% of college students living together expressed approval of premarital sex. A survey on college students’ sexual issues conducted before this Sexual Culture Festival showed that 90% of cohabiting college students would have sex, and 58.8% of college students expressed approval of premarital sex. , and has a growing trend. Pros: It’s okay to fall in love, but not to live together. Regarding current college students’ issues of falling in love and having sex before marriage. The Chinese Workers and the majority of debaters have obviously formed an orthodox alliance. "It is very common for college students to fall in love. It can be a kind of preview. Living together is not approved. The student handbook says that they are full-time undergraduates. Full-time means that You should study and live in school instead of going out to live together, and financial resources and other aspects do not allow it. Opponent: It is normal to stay with the opposite sex. The debater from Guangzhou University is obviously neutral on the phenomenon of cohabitation and the opposite sex staying in the dormitory. Normally, university is a quasi-society. College students have stepped into society and are all adults. They can treat their own feelings correctly. Expert comments: 1. It advocates dating, not having sex. 2. It advocates visiting, not going to bed. 3. I advocate talking about marriage, not marriage. 4. I advocate talking about children, not having children. ——Qiu Hongzhong, director of the Traditional Chinese Medicine Psychology Professional Committee of the Guangdong Association of Traditional Chinese Medicine, dean of the School of Economics and Management of Guangzhou University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, professor and master tutor, is sexually repressed. 87% of boys and 62% of girls have experienced sexual depression or depression. The survey shows that 87% of boys and 62% of girls have experienced sexual depression or depression in the past six months. In terms of sexual fantasies, 95% of boys and 68% of girls have experienced sexual depression or depression. % of girls have had sexual fantasies. Usually, boys will have sexual desire in half a month, and girls will have sexual desire in three weeks. Regarding this issue, debaters who have long known that "food and sex are also responsible" have reached a high level. Unification: Sexual repression is a normal thing and should be channeled and relieved through various means, such as establishing high aspirations, or doing sports, etc. Sex is a necessity of life like water and food. Without sex, there is no life. Life is at risk, and college students should wait for the opportunity and ability to mature. Experts say that marriage is just another way to resolve the contradiction between sexual desire and sexual repression in a fixed location and with a relatively stable person. Sexual repression is just another form of contradiction that allows us to improve and change sexual repression in a civilized way under the current system. There are many ways to solve sexual repression, such as masturbation and distraction, but they are only relief and cannot fundamentally solve it. It is solved on the Internet, so we should not be afraid, it is a symbol of maturity - Dong Yuzheng, president of "The Beginning of Humanity" magazine and vice president and secretary-general of the Guangdong Provincial Sex Society, female college student in sex education: "Without Japanese AV, China Sex education is completely blank” “Many boys require their girlfriends or wives to be virgins, but when asking girls to be virgins, have they ever asked themselves if they are virgins? I believe that chastity is physical and mental exclusiveness, not the hymen. In normal times, when I masturbate, have sexual dreams, or have sexual fantasies, I think I am immoral and bad. College students lack correct sexual knowledge guidance. There is a saying that ‘without Japanese AV, China’s sexual education would be blank’. If sex education is carried out, more students will learn about sex knowledge instead of always suppressing sex. In this way, there will not be so much cohabitation and premarital sex. "While the debaters from the three parties were discussing sexual issues in a friendly and peaceful atmosphere, a female college student from Guangzhou University expressed her explosive views. The debaters at the scene quickly returned to the sensitive issue of chastity and the popularization of sex education. Come up. Experts comment that chastity education is unfair to both girls and boys. For girls, without this membrane, there is no virginity. So for boys, if he does not marry a virgin as his wife, Then he has no face and no dignity. The sexual waiting period from sexual organ maturity to marriage is very long. Can you keep it?

——President of "The Beginning of Man" magazine, Dong Yuzheng, Vice President and Secretary-General of the Guangdong Provincial Sex Society

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