As the old saying goes, "Misfortune comes from the mouth." When dating, a casual remark from a girl is likely to dampen a boy's interest, especially in the initial stage. If you are still wondering why the other person never contacted you again after a date, you might as well think about it, did you "lose your words"?

What are the worst things to say on a date?

●Why don’t you speak?

"She has always been saying, I am not very interested, I just want to be a good listener, but she turned around and questioned me..."

Finally After saying everything he wanted to say, he suddenly remembered that the other party was really not good at "observing words and emotions". In fact, another way of saying it is: "What do you think?" to create an opportunity for the other party to speak. Or, you might as well change the topic. I hope the other person will notice your concern for him.

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●Why are you so cold today...

If his behavior today is different from his usual cheerfulness, or he looks very unhappy If you are patient, you might as well end the date early, otherwise if you drag it on, both of you will feel unhappy; or, ask directly, "You look different from usual today, what's wrong? Is there something wrong?" to let the other person know. You can express your feelings, and secondly, it can also dispel your doubts.

Something similar to this sentence has the same "disadvantages": Are you unhappy with me?

●Compared with her and me, which one do you prefer?

This kind of problem often occurs in front of the TV. When you see a boy staring at a certain female star, sitting next to you, you feel a little jealous, but you also want to take this opportunity to ask and listen to some sweet words, so Confirm the other person's feelings for you. But he has never come into contact with an actress in real life, so how can he compare? However, once the question is asked, no matter what the other person's answer is, just pass it off as a joke.

●Let’s go eat ××, shall we? The food there should be delicious (XX is often a high-end restaurant, with an average price of about 500 per person).

Girls who ask like this in a coquettish tone generally don’t think of the AA system. It’s not easy for anyone to make money these days. If the other party is a true gourmet, they may even think that you are lacking in taste when discussing food based on price.

●Nothing (the scene usually shows a girl with a gloomy face and a boy asking with concern).

Although this sentence only has three words, its emotional field is extremely powerful. It can not only forcefully terminate the conversation unilaterally in an instant, but also express the unwillingness to communicate. Often when these words come out, boys are at a loss, not knowing how to continue the topic or how to please you. The atmosphere between the two immediately became cold.

●Whatever! (When boys ask where to go, what to do, and what to eat)

Girls who say these two words are often not able to do anything "casually". Since boys have made a decision You want to complain again, why don't you be more clear when the other person asks you? ! If you really have no idea at the time and leave it to the other party to decide, at least you shouldn't complain afterwards. A girl who always answers "whatever" obviously has no opinion and sometimes makes the other person feel boring. How about searching for interesting landmarks together?

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