Criteria for judging a man’s psychological immaturity
What are some ways to measure whether a man is mature? What do you think are the standards for a mature man? Let’s take a look at the following ten criteria for judging a man’s psychological immaturity.
1. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They wear their hair in a style that suits them best, their chins are clean and stubble-free, their faces are not greasy, and they don’t have long fingernails. The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they should be neat and elegant, and not wrinkled like a courier. They would never wear black shoes with white socks or a suit to travel.
2. Respect the old and love the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to disaster-stricken areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood voluntarily... They may not do all of these things, but they will never do nothing.
3. Have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work. They know how to use hobbies to adjust their tense nerves and have both work and leisure, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say: Men with hobbies are less likely to become bad.
4. Pay attention to promises: A mature man will never go back on his words. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a promise, he carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled. If he cannot, he will never say anything and he will keep his word. Practice. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trustworthy. A man who talks a lot about cheating, fires off cannons randomly, and is slow to take action has nothing to do with maturity.
5. Broad-minded: Mature men do not care about petty gains, do not care about small losses, and do not complain about this or that. Their eyes are never caught up in trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family.
6. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at putting themselves in other people's shoes, considering problems from others' point of view, not forcing others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All men who are "what do I do" have a typical little emperor temperament and have not grown up yet.
7. Have the courage to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never make excuses to shirk the blame.
8. Firm will: Mature men have a stable psychological quality. Once they determine their goal, they work hard towards it. When encountering setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but they are determined to Don't give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set off with confidence.
9. Don’t talk too loudly: A mature man never talks casually. He will maintain appropriate silence and speak clearly but without shouting. Just drink some wine and tell the whole table about your experiences and stories, without the need of a loudspeaker, half the room can hear. This kind of man can make the audience laugh at most, and no one will take your various so-called " "The Road of Struggle" in my heart.
10. Learned and reserved: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their own connotations. But they are not showy, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they will never show off deliberately to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the better it tastes.