You are about to have some intimacy with your husband in the bedroom, but your child is right next to you. How should you speak at this time? You suddenly have the urge to express your love for your husband, and you happen to be in a public place at this time. What should you do? Between husband and wife, sexual desire and love always seem to be "untimely", making people suffer from "the arrow is ready but cannot be fired". At this time, the "secret code" has become the best "magic weapon".

The latest issue of the famous American sex magazine "Red Book" introduces us to the role of "secret code" in married life and how to use it correctly.

One word can arouse sex

Sex is a normal thing between couples, but many people think that it is the most difficult thing to say. Think about it, when you want to be intimate with him, you can't just say "let's go to bed", right? This sounds too direct. An elegant lady would not say such things, especially when your children are around.

In this regard, Dr. Tina, the love column consultant of "Red Book", said that when both husband and wife have experienced a certain scene together, and in this scene, you just like each other. Then, find a word related to this scene to evoke your memories, and this word is a good code. "For example, some American couples now use 'candles' as a code sign, because they always have candlelight dinners on their honeymoons, and that atmosphere is obviously quite romantic."

So, when they got married, When you have a child and want to be intimate, there will always be someone who says: "Honey, let's go look for candles." In an instant, the passion during the honeymoon will turn into an electric current that passes through the bodies of both parties, making They immediately put down their work and went to the bedroom.

37-year-old Anna said that when she first met her husband, she knew she would marry him. "But I didn't want to say the clichéd words 'I love you,' so I said to him at the time: 'You are my home.'" More than 10 years later, Anna and her husband already have two children. But that sentence was always the code before they made love.

Tips for showing affection in public

Sophie and her husband both work in large companies, and there are many colleagues around them when they call each other. "I don't want our sweet words to be heard clearly by our colleagues, so we have some secret codes." Sophie said, "For example, when we answer the phone, we will say 'incredible', which means that the love between us is It’s hard for others to match.”

Sometimes, the secret codes used in public places are not necessarily words, but can also be actions. "My husband likes to touch his nose, and we take it as a sign of love," Catherine said. "So he often does it to me in public, whether it's a big party, a family dinner, or the kids' ball game. It's one of the things we do." I like this feeling.”

Use secret codes to clear communication barriers

You know, men always speak concisely and concisely, but women have a lot of subtext. It caused communication problems for both parties. The secret code is always simple. Therefore, when a woman uses a secret code to convey information to a man, the man will feel clean and neat, the woman will feel emotional, and the communication barriers will be eliminated.

Vivian and her husband kiss every day at 12 noon. "At this moment 23 years ago, we held a wedding. We used it to commemorate our marriage and express our love." Vivian said, "I invented this secret code, but my husband liked it very much because he never used it again. No more thinking about those long and disgusting words. He always said that I invented the code and he turned the code into a tradition." Sometimes, the code can even save a marriage. When Wendy first met her husband, she was working as a bartender and her husband was a customer. Their first conversation was when Wendy asked, "Do you want some fries?" It became their codeword from then on. After their marriage, when they had a heated argument, one of them would suddenly ask, "Do you want some French fries?" Then the two would laugh together and make up.

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