Couple taboos: Not caring about the man’s face
Guo Tao, who is nearly 40 years old this year, is the teaching director of a middle school in a certain city. In order to establish prestige in front of students, Guo Tao will use his face that never "smiles" on campus every day to face Every student who will or has made a mistake.
In fact, if students are asked to rate who is the most severe teacher in their minds, then Guo Tao will definitely not be ranked at the top. He does not have various "punishment" measures for students like many teachers. He just uses this method Special images to "shock" them.
Sometimes, students will see that there is often a lady following Guo Tao. They almost always keep half a meter apart when walking on campus. They occasionally talk, but there is never any intimacy or affection. Exaggerated expressions.
The students all knew that the lady must be Guo Tao's wife, but none of them knew the origin of this lady. Later, at a school New Year's Day party, the school invited many leaders from the local education bureau. When the leaders took the stage to speak, a familiar figure appeared in the center of the stage. When the host introduced the woman as the deputy director of the city's Education Bureau, the students in the audience burst into excitement. The students did not expect that the "little woman" who followed Director Guo every day turned out to be the deputy director of the city's Education Bureau.
Later, a student said that he once saw Guo Tao and the woman in a shopping mall in the city center. They were not like they were in school. Guo Tao was holding something in one hand and holding the woman in the other. They were kissing each other. People couldn't believe that this was the cold-faced teaching director in front of them.
Smart women will work hard to improve their husband’s image
In the above case, Guo Tao imposed certain restrictions on his behavior on campus in order to establish a serious image in front of students. And his wife, a woman with a much higher position than her husband, knows how to respect her husband when walking on campus and cooperates with her husband to maintain his image in the hearts of students.
In private, the woman's gentle words and emotional exchanges made the husband, who was grateful to his wife from the bottom of his heart, care for her more. In real life, there are too many women who don’t know how to correctly handle the face issue between husband and wife. They often pour cold water on their husbands when they need to "have face", and often become cruel and cold when their husbands need their gentleness... …We can imagine how many men would like such a woman and how many men would feel bored.
In the relationship between husband and wife, although there are many things that are more important than the issue of face, the issue of face is an important aspect of maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. If the other party's face needs are not handled well, no matter how strong the relationship is, it will sometimes become thinner. .