That was a woman with very good conditions, appearance, job, family... Everything was excellent, but such an excellent woman was married twice and divorced twice. , I haven’t found my happy partner yet.

When she got married for the first time, she was looking for someone with high conditions. Her parents, relatives and friends all said, "Good conditions provide good security. Men who are not good at all aspects of hardware will definitely have a difficult life." Looking at the close friends around her who don't have to worry about food, clothing or clothing because they are married to rich husbands, she believes that the condition is the truth. Therefore, her first husband had very favorable conditions. He was the vice president of the company, had a car and a house, had a master's degree, and his parents were highly educated. Logically speaking, she should be very happy, but she said she was not happy at all. The first husband was too busy with his career and could not take care of his wife. He could not see anyone all night long, and it was only when she was alone that she realized that she was a little woman who needed someone to love her... One year after her marriage, she got divorced.

When she got married for the second time, her close friends gave her advice: "Marry someone who is considerate." You are right. Those old classmates who are married to good men of the new era can live a smooth life because their husbands are extra considerate and gentle. She believed it again, so although her second husband's income was less than one-fifth of her previous husband's, he was very gentle. The good days lasted less than two years. As soon as their daughter was born, the conflicts between the couple became more and more intense. She thinks her husband is too opinionated, and he thinks she is too willful. After more than a year of fighting, they got divorced again.

Now, her two ex-husbands have started families again, and they are happy, but she is still alone. She still can't figure it out: Why can other women with men with the same conditions and the same temperament and habits be happy, but why can she only end up getting divorced?

After listening to her words, I asked her: "What do you think a happy marriage looks like?"

She thought about it for a long time and said: "A happy marriage should be a strong marriage." A strong man stays by my side and supports a family.”

So, if you want a man who can stay by your side, you shouldn’t marry a man who has a career as your first husband. Usually too busy to have time to do some little things in life.

If you want a strong man, you should not marry a second husband. Men who are too docile often have weak personalities and lack the domineering power to lead a family.

As for this woman who has been married twice, she actually never figured out who she wanted to marry.

Of course, this is a common problem among women: Chinese women don’t marry the man they want to marry, but only the man everyone wants her to marry. Everyone said that the man was good, so she also agreed that the man was good. If other people's marriages looked happy, all she had to do was copy them.

When buying things, people say "choose only the right ones, not the expensive ones", but when women get married, they often "choose the good ones, not the suitable ones." In popular terms, this is called "copycat marriage", copying other people's happiness and copying your own marriage.

Women are too strict about conditions when getting married. They are always afraid of losing money and do not want to be too burdened. Everyone hopes to have the best shortcut to reach the destination, so copy + paste is naturally the easiest way! Of course, it’s hard to say whether we will really live comfortably after this. The same life, lived by people with different personalities, can always taste the different tastes of sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty. This is the strange thing about marriage, what is copied is often different content!

Although some women live a glamorous life, when faced with the envy of others, she only says: "Only my feet know whether the shoes are comfortable or not."

Yes, it’s hard to say whether the happiness that comes from copying is not suitable for you!

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