More and more couples find that they “can’t” communicate with their partners. They complain every time they open their mouths. When the anger is high, it’s really a thorn in the side. In this regard, Gu Jun, a professor at the Department of Sociology of Shanghai University, believes that this is mainly related to the fact that most young couples today are only children. The environment in which they grow up determines that they are not good at communicating with others, especially with familiar people. "Many young couples have strong self-awareness and will start from their own standpoint when thinking about problems. Therefore, they are often like two hedgehogs, pricking each other when they are together."

How can we ease the conflicts between couples and effectively promote What about communication? Gu Jun believes that this is a process that requires learning. For example, the American gender magazine "Red Book" recommends that couples should spend 5 minutes every day to say nice things to each other. In these 5 minutes, you can only praise the other person or say sweet words to increase each other's enthusiasm and goodwill. Gu Jun said that this is a good method that can be learned from. Because everyone likes to hear good words, especially if they are spoken by their closest partner, it will make them feel satisfied, relaxed and happy. Even if sometimes you know clearly that your wife/husband is just saying sweet words to coax you, it can still be used as a positive signal and emotion to pass between each other and enhance the tenderness between husband and wife.

Some people may not be good at expressing themselves, and it is difficult for them to say disgusting words to their lover. Then you might as well compile what you want to say into a text message, or write an email to the other person, or leave a small note. . "I have a friend whose husband is very reserved. She tried her best to force out a word of love. But in 2009, everyone noticed that she complained less. It turned out that on Valentine's Day, her husband gave her a gift and used a note Leave her a message, "My wife, you are the best! Every day is Valentine's Day for those who love me!" The moved wife posted this piece of paper on the dressing mirror in the bathroom, and the couple would see this sweet message every morning when they get up. , it becomes a beautiful lubricant for couples to get along."

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