Women’s psychology changes before and after marriage. Many people will say to their wives, you were not like this before marriage, why are you like this now? , which leads to conflicts between husband and wife. Now let’s analyze it so that the husband can better understand his wife’s psychological changes and understanding of his wife, and it can also help women understand themselves and alleviate the conflicts between husband and wife.

Inferiority after marriage and self-esteem before marriage:

Although in modern society, men and women are becoming more and more equal, there are still many places where inequality between men and women is reflected, especially In China, a wife is valued based on her husband, and a mother is valued based on her children. Women are more likely to have an inferiority complex because they cannot compete with men in terms of economic and social status. Moreover, a woman has an independent personality before marriage, but she has to rely on her husband after marriage, which makes the wife feel inferior to her husband.

We recommend that husbands understand and respect their wives more, so that their wives can build or preserve their self-esteem. For example: when she is busy with housework, you can do housework with her. When your wife pours tea and water for you, you can say thank you, so that your wife feels that you respect her and are your wife, not just a person. Home nanny.

Women’s nostalgia after marriage

Many husbands may not be able to remember their wives’ birthdays, marriage anniversaries, etc. due to work reasons, pressure in life, etc. But women are different. Their emotions are very delicate, so they will remember them clearly. , and you will feel that such days are very important, because they do have great significance, so I hope you can remember these commemorative days.

If possible, you can prepare a surprise gift for her; when you wake up in the morning, you can give her a kiss; if you are out of town, you should also send her a gift and make a phone call to tell her that you I have not forgotten this special day.

Independence before marriage and dependence after marriage

Women are very independent before marriage. They will buy the clothes and items they like; but after marriage, they will become dependent on their husbands. Psychologically, the husband will be asked for his opinion, hoping that the husband can affirm and praise the wife's behavior, which will make the wife feel happy.

For example, the wife buys a favorite piece of clothing or an item she likes. When asking for your opinion, you can express your satisfaction with her behavior in a timely manner. This will make your wife feel your love for her.

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The nagging mentality after marriage

We know that no matter who encounters something unhappy, she always treats the people she trusts. Tell, such as husband, wife, parents, friends, etc. If you talk too much or keep repeating the same topic, it becomes nagging.

In fact, psychology believes that nagging is a good way to vent one's psychological pressure and relieve one's depressed emotions. If we keep suppressing bad emotions in our mind, it is easy to produce Anxiety, depression and other psychological disorders. But many friends or family members will feel bored, resulting in quarrels and conflicts.

We recommend that you listen patiently and then express your opinions, so as to better solve women's nagging psychology.

Self-centeredness before marriage and family-centeredness after marriage

Before marriage, a woman loves a man to accompany her to dinner, shopping, and parks. If she is not happy, she will behave like a young lady. If things don’t go her way, she will ignore him for two or three days. But once a woman gets married, her innocent romance is brought back to reality by life, and her former nobility becomes plain. Buying groceries and cooking after get off work, cleaning on weekends, buying daily necessities, making tea and warming wine for men; taking children to learn piano and English, reading and painting with them, and taking care of all household affairs without complaint.

As husband and wife get along for a long time, shortcomings are more likely to be exposed than advantages, and beauty is not in the eye of the beholder. As the saying goes, teeth and tongues also fight against each other. The best thing to do at this time. Bit your lip and be patient, especially hoping that your husband would suffer more.

A reader wrote to say that during a quarrel between the couple, she poured a basin of water on her husband's head, but he unexpectedly said: I had expected that it would rain after the thunder. After that, he laughed and walked out. She regretted it very much afterwards and hurriedly cleaned the room. Patience and humor are the best antidote to marital quarrels. Remember, don't quarrel, let alone fight. If you start a fight, it will be difficult to deal with later.

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