Cohabiting men and women: The misleading psychology of premarital sex
The mysterious psychology of sex
It comes from poor knowledge or ignorance about sex. The more ignorant they are, the more they think about people's wrongs, and the more they want to uncover this mystery to satisfy their curiosity, so they break through the defense line and have premarital sex.
Worry
Some men want the woman to be devoted to him; they think they are not attractive enough and are afraid that the woman will change her mind; some parents even encourage their sons to "cook rice from raw rice to cooked rice" as soon as possible, and everything will be fine, which promotes premarital sex. .
Test psychology
Having little trust in the other person’s sincere love, they use sexual intercourse to test the other person’s authenticity, and use quick sexual intercourse to eliminate the psychological distress of distrust.
The psychology of sexual bonding
It is believed that "Having sex in advance is more conducive to strengthening the relationship"; sex can encourage the other person to love themselves more, deepen the relationship, and bond the love, but in fact it often has the opposite effect.
Sexual curiosity
It is more common in young and innocent girls. They often only have a limited understanding of sexual behavior and pregnancy, but they also have a vague sexual awareness and think they are just having fun. As a result, they become pregnant and feel ashamed. Difficult.
The psychology of sexual enjoyment
It is more common in girls who are cheerful, lively and active. They are mostly influenced by movies, television and books, and believe that sexual pleasure is the greatest enjoyment in life. They don't care about what love is.
Reward psychology
Women are often moved by the man's persistent pursuit or sweet words; or they have sex out of gratitude.
Express love and psychology
Some women think that their boyfriends are their prince charmings. They fall in love at first sight, but they hate meeting each other too late, and their love never fades; or because their conditions are too poor; or because they have been broken up many times, once they have a boyfriend, they break through the embankment. To express your true love.
Explore the psychology of sexual function
Especially for women, some of them pay great attention to the strength of their sexual function because their ex-husbands have sexual dysfunction, have been repeatedly ignored, and their families have been broken up. They only have sexual desire and little shame, so they are eager to find out their partner's sexual function in order to Determine the relationship between the parties.
The above sexual psychology is all negative psychology, and its harm is self-evident.
First of all, premarital sex often sows the seeds of mutual distrust in the psychology of both parties and is the fuse for the breakdown of a marriage;
Second, being sneaky and hasty, causing psychological harm and panic;
Third, because there is no health check-up, sexual unions are a breeding ground for infectious diseases, such as sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS, hepatitis B, lung disease, etc.;
Fourth, because both parties are very excited, "extra ovulation" is triggered, which makes it easy to get pregnant. If you continue to have an abortion without permission, it will often cause accidents such as heavy bleeding, or leave sequelae such as dysmenorrhea and irregular menstruation;
Fifth, because of pregnancy before marriage, women are often looked down upon, listened to cold words, and put a lot of pressure on the woman. Some go to a dead end and cause murder cases.