In this era where time is money, everything seems to be ahead of time. "Precocious puberty" is popular among primary school students, "puppy love" is pursued by middle school students, and more and more college students can't wait to open the Pandora's world of "living together". box. The term "cohabitation" is generally criticized for being involved in love affairs, as it is considered to be associated with "fornication" in bed scenes. But some people ask, "What's wrong with living together? Is it illegal to live with someone of the opposite sex?"

There are many reasons to live with her

It is usually men who propose cohabitation. For this group of men, they do not want to enter the "grave" of marriage, but they hope to enjoy the happiness that should be between husband and wife; or they do not want to get married because they just want to be "single nobles"; or Maybe they want to get married, but are wavering because of the fear of marriage, so they try to get married first; or maybe they are unable to get married because of family reasons, so they live together first. In short, for whatever reason, they proposed to live with their girlfriends without a marriage certificate. After being approved, there were two more "unlicensed marriages" in the world.

Traditional:

Who does trial marriage-style cohabitation “benefit”?

It’s definitely the girls who will suffer.

Whether boys want to admit it or not, sex can almost always be a major factor in their request to live together. Sex that used to be sneaky and sneaky has turned into a regular sex life, which makes all the boys who advocate cohabitation a winner.

It's unfair to girls. From the love affairs of the past to daily necessities, love and romance are no longer there; the beauty on the face has gradually faded away, and even if you are not married, you will become "old and yellow". And when love is shattered, both body and mind are hurt at the same time. Looking at the hut where I once lived happily, I suddenly realized that the dream of Weaver Girl and Cowherd was unattainable.

Modernism:

Will living together harm anyone?

You and I promote feelings

I believe that men and women who live together have good initial wishes. They hope that they can spend more time together and have more opportunities to get to know him or her in life, which will benefit their future marriage. They do not want to treat cohabitation as a trivial matter.

He and she who live together will think that cohabitation is the running-in period of marriage. Because of living together, they get to know each other more deeply and fall in love more deeply, thus making cohabitation a prelude to marriage. Two people in love lead their lives together, allowing each other to better see each other's strengths and weaknesses, and understand each other's family, education, living habits, and even sex postures. Only in this way, when two people hold hands and enter into marriage, they will not feel that everything is too abrupt.

Love does not depend on living together

No matter what the reason is, it is not a wise move for college students to choose to live together. The days of daily necessities will erase the romance of love in dreams, making love be seen as a luxury consumption. Following the trend of cohabitation, boys and girls have never thought about the responsibilities of life, and all they can get is luxury youth. In the end, love is just dragging away a box of clothes and saying "goodbye" easily.

As the saying goes, it is easier to meet than to live together. Men and women living together often have financial disputes due to "unlicensed marriage", which turns love into hatred. Therefore, comrades who still want to have confidence in love should give themselves one more second to think before moving in together.

"Devotion" is not a talisman of love

Infatuated girls often cherish their first love very much and are very devoted, but they are also very naive. Some of them are afraid that the other person will change their mind, so in order to tie the other person to each other, they will easily commit themselves to each other, but in most cases they will cause their own misfortune. Infatuated girls often cherish their first love very much and are very devoted, but they are also very naive. Some of them are afraid that the other person will change their mind, so in order to tie the other person to each other, they will easily commit themselves to each other, but in most cases they will cause their own misfortune.

If the other person is just toying with you, then after the purpose is achieved, he will soon "abandon the old and find a new love" and find a new love; if the other person also loves you, then your rash behavior will make the other person no longer love you. So I respect you, and some may even become suspicious: Since you "dedicate yourself" to me so easily, will it be easier for you to "dedicate yourself" to others? There are also liars and perverts who use "Only by committing yourself to each other can you truly love each other" as a temptation. Once you fall into their trap, it will be difficult to extricate yourself, causing lifelong regret.

Therefore, for your own health and happiness, girl, please clean yourself and take care of yourself. "Devotion" is not the lubricant of love, it may be the "soup of ecstasy" that deceives you. If you understand that your body is your precious wealth, then you should cherish it in every possible way and not give it away easily. You would only give cheap things to others, right?

We should also understand that sincere love means great respect for the personality of the loved one, a high degree of responsibility for her lifelong happiness, and mutual trust without suspicion or "experimentation." If you need to "commit yourself to each other" and use your body as collateral to show that you truly love each other, this in itself is a devaluation of the personality of both parties, and it is also a possessive desire for the woman, her future and the possible birth of new people. An irresponsible act of life.

Obviously, frivolous "promise" and "sincere love" have nothing to do with each other. If love is sincere, it will not be verified by the body. Because love is the closeness of two stars, not the "love" between genitals.