As the saying goes, "choosing a daughter-in-law depends on the mother-in-law." But according to me, "choose a good mother-in-law first when marrying." How can I say that marriage is not a matter of two people. Marrying him is equivalent to marrying him. Social relations Sum. If you are unfortunate enough to have to live with your mother-in-law under the same roof every day, the problem will be huge. It is easy to get along but difficult to live with. As a wife, you have to go through many tests!

I was called a bitch for 2 years after getting married

I finally decided to get a divorce and start living my own life again. Such a mother-in-law and such a marriage are unbearable to look back on.

I was born in a scholarly family. Although I am not a wealthy family, everyone in my family is well-educated and gets along harmoniously. I have learned to respect my elders since I was a child. My friends say that I have a good temper and never lose my temper. However, being married for two full years was the most terrifying experience in my life.

When I first started dating my husband, I already knew that his parents had divorced 20 years ago and he was very kind and filial to his mother. I secretly thought that this man is very good and has a good personality. He will definitely be a good husband when he gets married in the future. I was too naive. People who fall in love have zero IQ. Life is full of twists and turns. The benefits and advantages I thought of at the beginning turned out to be disadvantages in the future.

In the eyes of my mother-in-law, I easily took away her beloved things and always made trouble for me. Whenever she points at me and scolds me, my husband just stays silent. I know that he is in trouble. This is his only dear mother. I told myself over and over again that it doesn't matter, if you are good to others, others will be good to you. I would rather suffer a little injustice than embarrass my husband. She listened to it over and over again, until she was tired and it was time to rest.

But the human heart is made of flesh. After a long time, I am not in a good mood all day long, and I don’t want to go home. Several times, she called me a "bitch, a bitch" in front of my neighbors, called me a thief for stealing my husband's money, and called my whole family a thief. That day, I finally couldn't help it, "Mom, you can scold me, but you can't scold my parents. My parents have never sorry for you." My mother-in-law spat, "When the hell did I say anything about your parents? You are a vixen." I love wronging people. "For the first time, I ran away from home and left without looking back.

I really want to pretend to be nice to her, but I can’t, and I feel very painful inside. I can’t convince myself to go back to that home again. My husband finally agreed to the divorce, and I feel like I’m free. . When I think about my previous life, my heart is cut with a knife. . .

I would like to warn all girls that before getting married, you must clearly understand the temperament of your mother-in-law. If you can't offend her, you can hide her. Marriage cannot withstand the tossing of your mother-in-law. Beating a couple with a stick is not what you imagine. So difficult. "Finding a husband who loves you and a mother-in-law who is reasonable" is hard to come by, but if you have to choose, the latter is more important and must be considered!

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