There are 24 hours in a day. If we use a few typical objects in life to classify them, they are beds, desks, and dining tables. Excluding the tens of minutes or even hours of dining time that are unbreakable every day, excluding the time of going to and from work in the wind and rain every day, and excluding the office time that can last for 8 hours or more in one sitting, the rest is our We live in bed, so how much time do we spend around the "bed" every day?

In a survey of about 5,000 people we conducted with a female channel on a certain website, the data obtained is: < /p>

About 40.67% of people spend 8 hours of 24 hours a day engaged in bed-related activities; 17.16% of people have close contact with the bed for less than 8 hours a day; 39.55% of people stay in bed for more than 8 hours. ~12 hours, and only 2.61% of people truly have the luxury of living in bed for more than 12 hours!

How to define our bed life which lasts from 8 hours to 12 hours? What exactly do we do in bed? Now let’s unravel the mystery!

1. Sleep: How to sleep?

Beds, called "couches" in ancient times, were originally used for sleeping! Therefore, the first form of Ukiyo-e on the bed should be all kinds of topics about sleeping.

Survey on room and bed allocation

1. 73.13% of the surveyed couples have only one bedroom at home, only one big bed, and only one quilt to sleep with.

Keywords: emotion

"It definitely affects each other's sleep quality, but we both agree that emotion comes first in bed life."

2. There is only one bedroom in the house and only one big bed, but 17.91% of the respondents slept under two quilts.

Keywords: initiative

"Try not to affect each other's rest; when we want to have sex, either he takes the initiative or I take the initiative."

3. 7.46% of the respondents have two bedrooms at home, each sleeping in his own room and no one interfering with each other’s rest.

Keywords: privacy

"When I want to have sex, either he comes to my room to look for me, or I go to his room to look for him. The rest of the time, I have my own privacy."

4． There is only one bedroom at home, but there are two single beds. Couples who sleep separately account for 1.49% of the respondents.

Keywords: Convenience

"Separation without separation will not affect each other's rest; when I want to have sex, either he will come to my bed to find me, or I will come to his bed to find him."

A popular saying in China is: First-class couples separate Second-class couples sleep in separate beds, and third-class couples sleep in the same bed.

The so-called first class is like a nobleman. The master and the wife have their own bedrooms and living rooms. When living as a couple, the master "comes to the housewife's room" like a "tour". The so-called second class is the petty bourgeoisie. They cannot afford two bedrooms, but they can afford two beds. Sleeping from one bed to the other is considered a kind of romance. The third class is naturally the civilian class, and the happiest thing is to have a wife and children on the hot bed.

The popularity of separate beds is undoubtedly inseparable from the trend of individualism. In the bed of the Chinese people, the free era has begun to emphasize the equality of everyone. Some people say that those who implement the "separate bed system" are spiritual aristocrats. At least, they show a detached attitude on sexual issues and dare to separate. Naturally Is not hungry or thirsty. In fact, for today's young couples, the problem of sexual hunger and thirst is not serious, but the problem of aesthetic fatigue is rampant. Sharing the same bed before marriage is no longer new. After becoming a couple, the certificate will naturally not stimulate the novelty. The popularity of separate rooms and beds can also be regarded as a means of "creating hunger and thirst".

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Sleeping Position & Relationship

Various sleeping positions usually reflect the relationship between the male and female owners in bed.

Sleeping face to face or hugging each other: 35.68% of the people who participated in the survey adopt this sleeping position

In addition to indicating that the two are still in love, it also shows that both men and women are possessive people. This kind of love is very strong and unreserved. At the same time, everyone does not want anyone or anything to affect the relationship between the two parties, and they have the desire to sacrifice and pay for each other.

Back-to-back: 30.24% of respondents are willing to sleep with their backs facing like this

This sleeping position can be judged in two situations. One is that everyone is a relatively self-centered person. Even if there is no major conflict at ordinary times, they do not want to be disturbed by each other when sleeping, so the relationship can easily become alienated. In terms of sex, it often manifests as hot and cold, and inseparation. If one party intentionally sleeps further and further away, or even changes the position of the pillow, the other party should pay more attention and guide the other party to express their dissatisfaction, so that both parties can calmly solve the problems in real marriage life.

Hugging style: 19.57% of men or women prefer to sleep with their partner in their arms

They are a warm and stable couple. Trust the other party very much and can give the other party a sense of security. A man hugging her from behind shows that he doesn't mind taking care of his woman wholeheartedly, and is willing to put her first in everything from daily life to any major decisions. And if a woman hugs him from behind, it shows that she is willing to take care of her man's life so that he can have no worries and work hard on his career.

Sleeping on the shoulder: a sleeping method preferred by women aged 14.51

Many people like to sleep on each other's shoulders. It is known that this is the most natural and comfortable sleeping position for most people. In fact, this sleeping position means that both of them enjoy their current marital status and affirms the position of their partner in their hearts. It can be seen that the two of them understand and understand their partners very well, their relationship is equal, there is no distinction between high and low positions, and they get along very comfortably.

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